Extreme Restraints are very good, IMO. I haven’t purchased directly from there, but I have had someone send me a gift from there. I got a leaflet in the package with the things I received, but have not received any marketing since.
I was going to make a joke about how we haven’t heard from the OP in six years, so I guess it’s going swimmingly. 
Yup.
And another vote for Blowfish.
Toys in Babeland hasn’t been mentioned, and is great. Also add another vote to the Goodvibes pile.
Adam and Eve will send non-discreet follow-up mailings, and most of their products are cheaply-made.
Jimmyjane as well - I don’t know about their selection of fetish gear, but the toys are quality. No follow up mail, discreet shipping.
Sorry to resurrect this yet again, but I got a good laugh tonight. From Amazon, I purchased a dildo, some lube, and a cat-o-nine-tails, and after submitting my order it offered me the chance to Tweet/Facebook my purchase.
Yeah, right!!
Hi Mom, sisters, and Auntie! Look what I bought! 
Please tell me you still love me no matter what