Ok, sorry about not being clearer, let me give another stab at what I was trying to get at.
And, first let me say also that the following example is purely ficticious, and a made up story to help illustrate what I mean. I am by no means implying that the following is true. Also, I by no means meant to imply that Jehovah’s Witnesses are abusive more regularly than any other religious or non-religious individuals. I cited that example merely because it reminded me that I was thinking about this issue, and when someone says, “oh, they say they are (fill in religion here), but they’re not, because a real (whatever) wouldn’t do that,” it raises red flags for me. Who put that person in a position to tell someone else they are not of the faith they say they are? I don’t really think that’s in any of our power to do.
Anyways, on with my point.
[made up anecdote]
Let’s say a Christian decides God hates gays, decides to beat a few up. Various Christian spiritual leaders decry this act, saying, “hey, that’s not what we’re about, man. All you people who are thinking we Christians are like this are just wrong, this guy was an abboration and doesn’t represent us at all,” and that’s the end of the story.
Now let’s say that this sort of thing starts happening more frequently (as in, more than once). People beating up gays in the name of Jesus.
If this starts happening the first excuse just seems to hold less and less water for me. The, “it’s not me babe… no no no it’s not me,” thing doesn’t work when you’ve got significant numbers of Christians beating up gays.
If I were a reporter, for example, interviewing the Pope after a bunch of Catholics had beaten up a bunch of gay people and he said to me, “well, they really aren’t Catholic, and we in no way support their behavior,” I would turn around and say, “but wait a minute. They go to your church. They get their spiritual and religious ideas from your priests. When something bad becomes so wide spread, do you really think you can write those people off as just ‘not getting it’ and not really part of your church? Might this not mean that you need to be communicating more clearly about this sort of thing?”
[/made up anecdote]
Religious organizations wielding powerful belief systems and indoctrinating people (no negative connotation meant there) from a very young age have a responsibility to make sure that people “get it.” If people aren’t getting it on a widespread level, it’s the religion’s problem, and should be dealt with by that organization. A clear example that comes to mind is the large number of Muslims who aparently think that people in the US are infadels and deserve to die (note: not all Muslims, or even most Muslims, just a significant and vocal minority). I hear often that “they’re not really Muslims” and “Osama bin Laden is not really a Muslim; Muslims don’t behave that way.”
Now, I’m not trying to say that the Muslim religion condones terrorist behavior. But what I am saying is that the Muslim religion in the way it is practiced seems to be giving rise to action that is contrary to what it actually purports as being right action. On an individual level you can explain this away as just a nutball who’s got a few screws loose. But when masses of people are behaving the same way, it’s important for the leaders of the Muslim religion to seriously look at and revaluate what they do and say so as to keep these attitudes from being a never-ending problem.
(preceeding paragraph I think clearly illustrates what I am trying to argue, or begin to argue, or inspire others to begin to argue, or whatever).