Ahh, the old “n****r isn’t racist because it only applies to the bad ones” argument (also known as “not all black people are n*****s”). Haven’t heard that one in a while! Please, tell us more about your opinion on ethnic slurs. Is beaner not a slur since it only applies to people who eat beans? Maybe there aren’t any racial or ethnic slurs at all, since they can only apply to certain groups within an ethnic group (or some other sub-grouping)!