I think the first time I realized what some of Madonna’s songs were was when my wife dragged me to some step classes while in law school, and she identified the songs.
Currently, there is just no situation outside of something like the Super Bowl or SNL in which I hear modern music, and even if I recognize it, that I am informed of the performer. About the best that happens is if a singer has a very distinctive voice - like maybe Billie Eilish. But if I hear a woman singing I don’t know if is is Rihanna, Beyonce, Adele, or I don’t know who else are big female singers these days. Maybe if I listened to their music enough, their voices and styles might become apparent to me, but I have no interest in putting in that effort.
I’m not bragging or doing anything other than stating fact when I say I listened to Umbrella and have no recollection of ever having heard it before. In fact, during the halftime performance, the songs sounded so similar to each other that I asked my wife how many songs she had sung. I guessed 5 or 6. Was shocked to later see the medley included something like 12. I do not enjoy superhero movies, so I did not see Wakanda. Perhaps if I had, and I I stuck through the credits, I might have recognized Rihanna’s name.
Just about the only time I listen to music these days is in the car, and then it is almost always NPR or a CD I own. I’m sure I could play any number of bluegrass and oldtime tunes for many of you, and you would not know the performers, be able to distinguish the songs, or remember them tomorrow. Ever hear of Flat and Scruggs? Bill Monroe? Rhiannon Giddens? Name any of their songs? So what? Different people have different taste, and some of our tastes aren’t reflected in what is the most popular at the moment.
But today is a far cry from way back when, when Elvis and the Beatles appeared on the Ed Sullivan Show. And then maybe on a musical-comedy variety hour or special. (Or even sang/played the theme song for a hit sitcom!)
Kudos to those older folk who enjoy and keep up with current music. It just is not something that has appealed to me for several decades. And, of course, there is the reinforcing aspect in that the less you expose yourself to something, the less you are interested in it, etc.