I can understand the GF’s point. If the BF had trusted her, he’d have never discovered she wasn’t trustworthy. It’s all his fault for snooping. :rolleyes:
If the bill comes to you, of course you can be expected to look at it.
But I think it’s an odd arrangement to get someone else’s phone bill. I would prefer to give honey the money if they need it and let then handle their bills like an adult.
That seems like a waste of money–adding a second line to your own account is usually quite a bit cheaper than setting up a second separate account. Adding me as an extra line is $40 a month cheaper than having my own separate plan.
I agree if he gave her the phone, it’s hers. Period. He does not get to take it back, check her calls, or spy on her.
If he’s paying the service plan, of course he has the right to review the bill, charges and calls.
If she’s so stupid to use her phone to cheat, while he’s paying the plan, she completely wanted to get caught. She needs to own that she’s either an idiot, or wanted to get caught. Or, and I think this the most likely, she is both!
It’s like if a man rents an extra condo and pays all the bills, and lets the GF live there, and then the GF is caught cheating in the condo, because he came around to see her, and check on the place. He is a dirty spy who should let her do whatever she wants with his stuff, because it’s just wrong to be accountable. Especially when you can’t afford your own phone.
That’s good thinking, right there.
I think we have an entire generation (maybe two) out there that have given up their privacy in regards to their phones. No wonder they don’t care that Booz Allen Hamilton is checking their phone records. Hell, Mommy & Daddy are already looking.
She is young and stupid and acts entitled.
He is young.
I guess they both learned a lesson.