Sad news about my husband, RickQ

[Qwisp]

I’m sorry and saddened by your news.

[Rebo]

Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers. I’m so sorry you have to go through this.

[tarragon918]

I am keeping you and RickQ in my thoughts and prayers, Brynda. My Mom was diagnosed with inoperable peritonial cancer in Jan. 2003 and passed on June 13, 2003. Wish there was something more I could offer, other than to say that I’m familiar with part of what you’re going through. Be as comforting as you can be but don’t be afraid to ask for help. Squeeze his hand and talk to him; even if he can’t acknowledge it, he’ll still hear you.

{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

[mhendo]

I’m very sorry to hear it. You’re both in my thoughts.

[swampbear]

Brynda I’m so sorry. RickQ and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Philster]

@Brynda

My beloved, RickQ, was diagnosed with kidney cancer in January. He wrote about it in a thread that I am too upset to find right now.

He is dying. I know that sounds blunt, but I am tired of people asking me if there isn’t something that can be done. No, I wish there were. I didn’t want to post this before now for fear he would read it, but that isn’t a possiblity now. He is confused and sleeps most of the time. I posted on domebo because I knew he wouldn’t go there.

This is so much more heartbreaking than I could have imagined. If you have been through this, I am so sorry. If you haven’t, take what you imagine and multiple it by infinity. I watch him slip away bit by bit. He isn’t in pain, but is occasionally confused and frightened.

Rick and I met on the dope. This place has a special place in our hearts. We met in a flirting thread, started emailing, then phoning, then I went to meet him in England. We loved each other from the start. We have been married 6 years, and have been so happy and good for each other. Here’s the kind of couple we are–we kiss when one of us leaves the table to go to the restroom. We hold hands, we talk, we truly get each other.

I love the last part of your post, and when there isn’t much to say to someone that can really make them feel any better, I like to stop and let the person know that I am going to carry a piece of this with me. Hits home with me.

[Mama_Zappa]

Oh hell. This is not the way it’s supposed to work out.

I am so sorry.

[Labrador_Deceiver]

Terrible, terrible news. Despite never having met you, you’re in my thoughts this afternoon.

[PunditLisa]

Brynda, I’m so happy that you two found each other. And I’m so sorry that goodbye is coming way before it should.

Take care and give RickQ a kiss from us Dopers.

[Fretful_Porpentine]

I’m so sorry.

[Larry_Griffin-Kentzel]

I’m so sorry, Brynda.

My thoughts are with you and RickQ.

[Faruiza]

My thoughts are with you, Brynda. I wish for RickQ’s peace and your heart to be soothed somehow.
Much love, darlin’.

[ShibbOleth]

Brynda and RickQ,

   I think we met at a Southwest Ohio Renfest many years ago.  I was there with my kids and Rue was there with his son.  If that was the two of you, then you are a great couple.  Regardless, I'm saddened to hear this.  Fate too often seems to punish the beautiful.    

My thoughts are with you both,

Shibb

[Jodi]

Brynda, you and Rick are in my thoughts and prayers. Strength and peace to you in this horrible, horrible time.

[Kyla]

Oh god. I was having a lousy day and this has put me over the edge and now I’m crying at the cafe. I’m so, so sorry, Brynda, more than I can say. I remember sharing the platters of yummy food at the Blue Nile with you and Rick fondly and I just can’t believe this. I don’t even have words.

I’m thinking of you both.

[tumbleddown]

You and Rick will remain in my thoughts and prayers, Brynda. I’m so sorry.

[Spoons]

I’m sorry to hear this, Brynda. Know that you and RickQ will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Yeticus_Rex]

Thoughts and prayers with you, Brynda and RickQ.

[gardentraveler]

I’m so sorry to read this. You and RickQ are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Baker]

I read the other thread, and when I saw this sticky I knew it couldn’t be good, considering why you posted over there.

I can’t say anything that hasn’t already been said, but I’ll pray for the both of you.

And if there is *anything at all *I can do, don’t hesitate to ask. If you have relatives that need to come see you, and pass through Kansas, they could sleep over if needed, or at least have a meal.