Very sorry to hear this.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Take the time you need, and do what you need to do to heal. It’s different for everybody. In the meantime you’re in our thoughts.
Having been through it myself, I know a bit of what you’re going through. It’s heartbreaking. I’m so sorry, so sad. Take time to grieve together, take care of each other, hold each other. I promise you, though you can’t believe it now…it gets better, life continues…I promise.
As another who has (recently*) lost a child before they had the chance to be born, I am so sorry to hear your news. Go easy on yourself and your missus - your grief is real and needs time to be worked through. Seek outside support - this is one time when you and your partner may not always be able to properly support each other.
Much love
Grim
- Thinks: sh*t, is it nine months already…? How time flies when it sucks