I’ve read (virtually) this entire thread. The more I read, the more I am floored how some people can’t let go of the ‘technical’ or ‘formal’ aspect, i.e. that Bland got what she had coming because she failed to follow the cop’s command(s); that no matter how it came about, she was resisting arrest. They forget that, or choose to de-emphasize, that there’s another aspect to policing which the officer in question totally and absolutely neglected.
For God sake’s (and as has been pointed out repeatedly in this thread), the cop was the professional here. When safe and feasible, it’s his job to de-escalate and to defuse, and it’s incumbent upon him to try to take a ‘meta-view’ of things. This was not a situation where he needed to be hyperfocused in the here and now, vigilant and parrying each move of the ‘suspect’. Obviously not! If he was doing his job he would have calmed things down, primarily by calming himself down.
I can express my feelings a lot better by comparing what the cop did (or didn’t) do to me in my role as a physician taking care of acutely ill patients (my practice is 100% acute care Internal Medicine).
If a demented patient swears at me, I don’t swear back at him. I don’t storm out of the room. If he yells at me, I don’t raise my voice at him. Obviously not. I have been trained and have years of experience at recognizing the symptoms of dementia. Same for someone who’s delirious or just totally freaked-out or upset. I don’t take their vitriol personally. And I never add fuel to the fire by ramping things up, or responding in kind. God no! I apply my training and experience.
I redirect. Or I simply sit quietly, maybe with a quizzical look on my face to signal, “hey, let’s calm down and get down to the business of helping you”. And at such times I make sure my body language is not just non-threatening but that it’s reassuring. In other words, I apply my professional training and experience to settle things down.
In short, I defuse. It’s just as much a part of my job as is treating someone with a heart attack.
The cop’s behaviour in this incident is analogous to me, as a doc, getting into a shouting match with the demented patient or with the frightened patient.When I see such behaviour in the medical trainees (which is, thankfully, very uncommon), I make a point of reminding them to take the ‘meta-view’; it’s nothing personal. The patient isn’t swearing at you. He’s swearing and he’s yelling because he’s sick and he’s frightened. Are police not taught the same?
(Obviously, all this applies only in what are self-evidently safe situations for the police. And that was clearly the case here.)