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Except that when this originally rose, I pretty much didn’t have any choice (due to circumstances too complicated to go into) but to admit what I knew. Plausable deniability doesn’t cover everything.
As for showing up today, the lawyer told me that no matter what it would have been Hobson’s choice: If I didn’t show up, I probably would have been arrested, if I showed up alone, I stood a good chance of being arrested, if I showed up with a lawyer (or delayed things until I could find a lawyer), it would have implied guilt. I’m sure I’m not out of the woods yet, but unless the thief returns the items, I find a lawyer willing to take the case for a fee I can afford, the money fairy leaves me a pile of cash enough to cover the cost of a lawyer, or I get arrested and get a public defender (which could be worse than not having a lawyer, if some of the horror stories I’ve heard about PDs are true), I really don’t know what else to do.
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You can tell all, as long as you’re “telling all” before you’re read your rights (IANAL, YMMV, there are some cases where certian utterances can be used even if your rights haven’t been read). Once you’re read your rights, speak only to your lawyer.
Showing up with a lawyer does not imply guilt, it implies intelligence. Every day, a thousand idiots who are guilty as sin show up without an attorney, and also every day dudes who are innocent as the day is long show up “lawyered up”. Now sure, the police want you to think it “implies guilt” as they hate it when you do that, as a lot of their work is make immeasurabley easier by the guilty idiots who show up without a lawyer who think they can talk their way out.
Now, if they were just calling you in as a potenetial witness, then no, don’t bring a lawyer. But if then they (often rather casually) read your your Miranda Rights- then what EVERYONE should do is act slithly offended & puzzled, and say “I came here to help you as I thought you brought me down here to ask me questions as a witness, not a suspect. I want to speak to an attorney. Am I free to go?” Make it sound like it’s their fault for turning what would have been you fully and completely cooperating into someone “layered up”. Don’t fall for their cheap interrogation tricks. Which, you already did, as you have apparently now admitted- after being Mirandized- to a crime. As to PD’s- if it was a very serious crime, and I was assigned a PD, certainly I’d check out his reputation, and if it was bad, I’d sell everything I owned on ebay to hire a good lawyer. But many PD’s are fine, and this would seem to be a good case for one.
IANAL, but even if you are completely utterly innocent of the theft, you have now made it soooo much easier for the DA. Now, he can charge you with several/many crimes, including theft and “breaking & entering”, and you have basically “made his case” for the “B&E” charge. Why anyone would think that “implying guilt” is worse than “admiting guilt” is beyond me. 
Really- everyone- please for the love of God- once they read you your rights- SHUT THE FUCK UP! Say only “I want to speak to an attorney” and “Am I free to go?” You can never, ever “talk your way out” once they have read you your rights, as they have *already decided * you are a serious suspect at that time. Anything your say will be used against you. Really.
Incidentaly, “Hobsen’s choice” doesn’t mean a choice between several bad outcomes. It means “no real choice at all” aka “take it or leave it”.