On to the OP.
You really are up against a wall with this. I’ve tried the same type of thing with mine, and never got useable results.
You need a homogenous light source - same intensity over the entire scan area. Your best bet here would be to use a light source in a box. The box would be painted white on the inside, and you would need lights around the edges. Then put a piece of frosted glass on the open side. That should get you a fairly even light source.
If you don’t heve an even light source, you’ll get really flaky brightness on the pictures.
The box should be mounted above the scan surface, with walls around it to block out ambient light. Think of your light box sitting on top of another box (open top and bottom) that sits on your scanner.
The supporting box (and the bottom of the light source box) should be painted flat black to cut down on reflections that might make for uneven lighting.
Once you’ve got an even light source, you need to make sure it is bright enough, and it needs to be of the right color.
The brightness is obvious. The color is maybe not so.
The scanner is calibrated to work with its own light source. It “knows” more or less what to expect as far as colors go. It can the scanned colors to remove the effects of its own light source color (the lamp does not put out a pure white.)
If the color of your new light is too different, then the scanner may do a pretty crappy job of compensating for it - and all of the colors in your scanned photos will be screwed up.
What you are wanting to do is not trivial. Do consider either purchasing a negative scanner or else have it done professionally.
BTW:
I scanned a full page at 800dpi, and it clocked in at about five minutes. My computer is no great shakes (Celeron 700MHz, 128Megs Ram.) The scanner is a Mustek 12000SP plus connected via SCSI, and I’m using XSane and the GIMP under Linux. Pick any part of the above and call it resposible for the results.