I make $8 an hour and work 30 hours a week. In theory, I could work an extra 3 hours one week to pay for the Board. But in reality, if I have the ability and time to work an extra 3 hours, and my boss okays it, then I have $20 that can go many other places. Tuition is my main concern. I often send in any extra money I end up with (like if I search my house for spare change, or find money on the street or something) to my credit card bill, which is exclusively run up with car repairs and books. Believe it or not, I am very responsible with my money, I just don’t have a lot to manage. I made some poor decisions with a credit card three years ago and ran up a balance of $3000; it was all paid off by last January (I was not at school and working full-time then). If I have extra money, I just cannot spare it. There are so many more things that NEED to be paid. I don’t have the funds to support many luxuries.
I also will not be sponsered. I was on welfare and lived in public housing for half my life. I swore I would never again accept handouts, and I’ve stuck to that oath. It might seem silly to some, but to accept $20 to play here would compromise my dignity. I accept charity from no one, and I rely on myself solely. I simply do not have it in me to accept such a thing.
The best idea I have heard so far suggested the following payment option:
Check what you are able to pay:
[$5]
[$10]
[$20]
[$30]
[$40]
[$50]
The people who want to be here and can afford $50 will no doubt pay it. Students like me can check $5 or $10.
Una, I know you did not mean to attack me. I just wanted to reiterate why I have to leave the Boards when and if the time comes to pay.
Also, I object to the argument that we have been getting a free ride all along and now we owe up, which is the idea several mods and admins have expressed. This Board was presented to me as a free message board. No mention was made at all when I registered that I would eventually have to pay. If it was, or if I had to pay at first, I never would have registed in the first place.
In my book, it is simply not right to offer someone something for free and then condemn them later for taking it. Say I gave you a present, then asked you for $20 in compensation for it two years later. When you refused, I say, “but you’ve been enjoying the present for two years! I deserve a payment!”, even though it was presented to you as a free gift with no strings attached. That’s just not acceptable behavior, and I find it deplorable.