Searches and incorrect conclusions

A troll with a cause, as it were.

On whose behalf is our collective chain being yanked in this thread, I wonder?

Yeah, you value the collective opinion here. That’s why this thread is now on Page 6. :rolleyes:

Didn’t say how I use the opinion, but I certainly value having a variety of opinions, and measuring how strongly a person holds them in order to determine how it is useful. Doesn’t everyone? Or are all discussions and opinions of equal value to you? Serous question…

I don’t believe it. It takes a certain amount of intelligence to read a post and interpret it to mean the exact opposite of what the poster was clearly saying. It can’t just be stupidity. It’s a put-up job. not alice really isn’t as stupid as he’s pretending to be.

FANTASTIC! Along with your work on the Hubble, you should win in a landslide!

Serious answer:

After 6 pages of “you v. everyone else”, does it occur to you that your obstinate tenacity to your position is a bit misplaced and foolish?

I see what you did there :slight_smile:

Oh, Heffalump and Roo, always with the passive aggressive jabs. You should vent that anger directly, you’ll feel better.

And, although I think it’s obvious to anyone who wasn’t hit in the head with a ball peen hammer, I’ll go ahead and point out that recreational outrage is the exact opposite of Pitting another poster whose actions on the message board are pissing you off. I know the latter concept will seem strange to you – it’s called confronting someone directly.

So, to summarize:

RO: venting about something that hasn’t directly impacted you to others not involved, where the parties involved will never see it.

Pitting: telling the person who is annoying you that they are, and why, in a forum where they can respond.

Whatever do you mean? Because a bunch of anonymous people have gathered in one small corner of the internet, and I have come to notice it, that I must leave holding their position?

I don’t take value in changing your mind, I take value in having your mind explained to me by you to the best of your ability, and I try to give you every chance to do your best. No one makes you participate if you don’t want to.I don’t take value in changing your mind, I take value in having your mind explained to me by you to the best of your ability, and I try to give you every chance to do your best. No one makes you participate if you don’t want to.

I take your opinions seriously and evaluate them for what I think they are worth. Others do the same, but not always with the same level of care or openmindedness or consideration. C’est la vie.

Like I said, your opinions in that other thread were very helpful in flipping some politicians’ votes in a situation that was deemed impossible and intractable. That is a compliment to you, even if you represented the opposite view from me. It was helpful because it allowed me to anticipate and effectively counter the viewpoints of the politicians and the others who had their ears, and it did not go unnoticed. I thank everyone, even belatedly for their help.

In this thread, and the other related ones, your opinions, whatever they are, and however deeply they are held, and the way you express them are very valuable data to me personally. That is why I am here at all, to learn. Maybe my method is unfamiliar to you, but it is not unheard of in the world.

not_alice, I don’t feel the need to respond with insults this time, since you aren’t insulting me back at this time. Oh, by the way - I think you’re mixing me up with another poster. I wasn’t arguing with you in that SSM thread.

My point, which you evidently missed, was not that you should change your opinion to match mine, or vice versa. I simply asked you: Does it occur to you that you might be mistaken?

Look, you obviously enjoy it here at the SDMB. I’m inferring as a corallary that you have a modicum of respect for the thoughts of the posters here. I know if it was me versus everyone else in a 6-page thread, I’d certainly think I might be in error.

That was the “royal you”, not you specifically. I know that.

Of course. That is why I am so eager to have someone present a rational case. To the extent that some here tried, and they did, they were not persuasive in that regard.

Have you considered that you and others might be mistaken?

I suspect you will either say no, or give the same answer I just gave.

Well, this pit thread aside, my broader opinion is that pedophilia is worth discussing and learning about rationally so we can devise treatments or other methods to handle it without the witchhunt hysteria.

I know those discussions can and do take place in some communities because I am privy to it, in my own house and social circles.

So I know I am right that that can happen.

That makes in interesting to observe when and where and why it doesn’t happen, to me at least. It seems that some otherwise thoughtful and good people are reduced to a pile of extreme reaction-mode only when this topic comes up. Similarly for sex offenders in place of pedophiles.

I find that fascinating personally.

No right or wrong, just observing as the world goes by. Sometimes I will stick my fingers in it just as a sort of measurement in the wind. That’s all that is happening here, and it is what happened in the other SSM thread.

Of course I consider that I might be wrong - with pretty much anything in my life beyond the simplest thoughts and tasks. Especially before I open up my big mouth here, where you will (deservedly) get your proverbial ass handed to you if you talk shit.

It’s not so much that others should have to “prove” that you’re wrong in this case. You started this thread - it’s up to you to convince us. And at that, you have failed miserably, as I’m sure even you’d acknowledge, as evinced by the complete lack of agreement with your position and the ever-increasing mockery of your posts.

If you really don’t get this, I’m afraid I’ll have to switch back into sarcastic wise-ass mode shortly, if only for my own sanity/enjoyment.

Could you please explain the irrationality of this. Thank you.

I don’t consider this such a sacred place that I give it any more or less due than anyplace else. I thought I might all those years spent lurkign, but experience has shown otherwise, much to my disappointment honestly.

I don’t have to prove anything, it is the pit. That people don’t agree and how they present themselves is something I am interested in, above and beyond their specific “point”. I do this in threads I don’t post in too. I want to see how people present themselves in a place devoted to “fighting ignoraance”.

I get what you are saying, but it is not really all that germane to what I am saying. Do you get that?

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OK, I’ll play your game. I’ll get you quotes. But I’ll do it objectively. What would make the OP wrong is showing it to be factually inaccurate. Let’s begin!

The thrust of this OP and this thread:

So Giraffe was mistaken, that’s your claim?

As I read his OP, Giraffe’s point seems to be that Cesario is a shitty person because he is one of “those pedophiles who wants to play with fire by broadcasting their fantasies onto a public forum or whine about not being understood or accepted.” OK, clear enough. Did Giraffe make this case?
He then provides links and examples of Cesario doing just that. Fantasies broadcasted, conditions met.

That is the claim, not yet suported by the actual words in that actual thread. I gotta go for the rest of the day. Perhaps you can find those words in the thread and post them here for us? It is all I have been asking for, all along. If it is there, it will be easy to find.

so you are repeating ad nauseum what others have said, and not addressing my easy to address objection to it. Sheesh!

Samsonite? As in luggage?

I don’t find it hard to comprehend - it would be a perfectly good argument if it were supported by the actual quotes in the thread he alleges exist, as he provided the other ones easily enough.

Why is THAT so hard to comprehend?

That is not even on point. If you object to Free Speech as it is known in the US, then go post int hat thread - I will be back there soon. There are others who object to US style free speech, you won’t be alone. But that is off topic for here and I won’t discuss it here.

Is anyone else getting a really strong Drmark2000 vibe? It’s almost like not_alice channels him. Tell me not_alice: did you teach yourself to transcend boredom at an early age?

If you are bored, no one is making you participate. You are free to leave at any time.

Wow, stunning. You and your weapons grade crazy make-believe. Just… wow.

No, as in baggage.

Your objection is easy to address: Cesario said a few times that he would never go to Australia because he likes kiddy porn literature and it’s illegal there. Thus that thread is another example of him bringing up his thing. You want a line showing “Cesario’s whining about not being understood or accepted.” Here’s a quote:

So there you. Now apologize to Giraffe.

So you didn’t understand? Or you are not really as rational as you were pretending to be?

You would rather resort to ad hominem attacks then find the one single quote in one thread that would make the case.

I get it.

Take comfort that you are far from alone :slight_smile: