Not necessarily, but usually. Your first contact with a lighthouse may be radar. It may even be audibly, depending on the present visibility, rain clutter, lighthoused location, etc. But lets take visual contact for a moment.
A light in a lighthouse will basically do one of four things: Flash (off more than on) Occult (On more than off) Isophase (on and off same period of time) or it’s Fixed (constant light). For any light characteristic other than fixed, when you see it from afar, you pretty much know you’re dealing with some type of lighted aid (maybe). If it’s fixed, it may be the masthead light of another ship or sailing vessel. These lights will be seen long before you see their other lights. Or it could be anything. It doesn’t really matter because what happens on a proper watch, is that as soon as you see a light on your horizon, you attempt to identifiy it with what you have at your disposal (Charts, radar, nav pubs, etc)
When you see a light on your horizon, you’ll check your radar in that direction, and see whats there. If it’s a lighthouse on land, you’ll see just that - land. You’ll look at the chart in that area, look at all the aids in that area, and match the light you see with the characteristics of the lights that are on the chart. All lighted aids have the light characteristics listed right on the chart with the aid. From the time you see a light on the horizon, until the time you can positively identify it as a lighthouse, should only take a minute or two, maybe sooner.
You see a light, and a lone blip on the scope, and nothing charted in the area, then you can start to assume you’re dealing with a vessel of some sort.
The legend in question is pretty ridiculous because to believe it, one would need to assume that a modern day Navy ship is sailing around land without looking at any charts, pubs or radars. :eek:
Your first contact with a lighthouse may indeed be audibly, if it has a fog signal. Heavy rain or snow can blind a radar pretty good, not to mention your eyes. Mariners in unfamiliar waters are especially cautious in these situations. But if you have a chart, you’ll be listening hard for that lighthouse; you’ll want to know exactly where that thing is at all times.