I currently work in an office environment with about 15 people on the property, most of them college-educated professional or technical staff. For the past year, I’ve had a supervisor who has managed to provoke one or more persons at the office into bitter screaming matches with him at least once per month. No physical violence yet, but two fairly good employees have quit (one just yesterday) and three or four others have said they are strongly considering getting out.
A lot of this seems to come from the fact that the guy in question has several mannerisms that seem to drive people absolutely mad: 1) he tends to speak to people in a way that suggests to them that he believes they know nothing about their jobs, even if they’ve been in their position for years; 2) he routinely and loudly browbeats people who he has an issue with in front of other workers; 3) he tends to barge into other offices like Kramer bursting into Jerry Seinfeld’s apartment and begins speaking to someone even if he can see they are on the phone or talking to someone else; 4) on the frequent occasions when a disagreement erupts he will begin talking over the other person, going on and on until the other person either walks away or explodes in rage. Unfortunately, upper management hasn’t really come to grips with how corrosive the atmosphere has become here, mainly because they don’t have to routinely deal with the supervisor on a personal basis. He does have some organizational skills, and that’s good enough, apparently. I’ll also mention that although he tends to drive me up the wall as much as anyone else, I’ve never felt like there was any point in reacting to his baiting behavior, and have mostly managed to remain civil even in disagreement.
My main question is, how common is it to have this sort of constant turmoil in a workplace? I used to work on drilling rigs, and I’ve seen plenty of anger expressed in that environment, but for the past 15 years I’ve worked in office settings or at home for this company and one other, and I can’t recall ever seeing it this bad.