I had one and most of my “friends” were people I know from work. Turns out, away from work, they were overly opinionated assholes who were fond of posting pretty hateful stuff. Since that wasn’t my idea of fun, I just dumped it. I don’t miss it.
59, female - and I’m now retired, so those assholes aren’t even coworkers anymore.
We’re already there because nearly everything on the internet linked to one and/or the other. I’ve found places online where you cannot post nor reply to anything unless you have either account. I avoid those places like the plague. It’s bad enough that FB already knows my RL name – I don’t want it spreading any more than it already has.
I bet in the future, employers will implicitly require prospective employees to have a Facebook page because NOT having one is–in some people’s eyes–tantamount to being an anti-social freak. And if you don’t have a Facebook page, how else can your private life be scrutinized? You could be badmouthing the company right now and they would have no idea!
That’s exactly why I don’t have anything to do with Facebook.
I value my privacy.
For example: I recently decided not to go to a wedding I was invited to.
I had a great excuse: I couldn’t attend because I would be out of the country for 2 weeks on vacation at that time.
And it was true–almost. I really was out of the country for 2 weeks—but returned home 3 days before the wedding date. But they didn’t know that, so it was easy to tell a little white lie.
If I’d had Facebook–I couldn’t have gotten away with it.
Or worse–I might have told the lie, and then been caught red-handed, which would have created a very embarrassing and awkward situation .
Can you look at a Facebook page without being a member? Whenever anyone sends me a Facebook link, it always tells me I can’t look at it unless I log in.
I’m not a Facebook member yet, but I suspect I’ll have to be within a couple of years just because so many sites are now using it as a proxy login, or else I’ll need one for my job (with my luck, it’ll be because my job has me building some piece of software that requires Facebook for a login )
My point exactly Heck, most of the people I have on FB I know from other online places. I have very few RL people on there, and I prefer it that way. The past belongs in the past, IYKWIM.
Female, 66. No FB no twitter no Pinterest. No. FB seems to be a way for people you haven’t spoken to in years to find you. No idea why I would want to participate in that. Twitter seems ridiculous and I don’t get it at all. Pinterest looks like a bigger time waster than SDMB or Ravelry and I don’t need another one.
Indeed. Catching up with old school friends from decades past is often used as a selling point for these things. But I’ve actually hooked up with a couple of old high-school friends and acquaintances, and we’ve grown so far apart that there was no need for any follow-up. One guy who was a pretty good friend even after high school is now a truck driver based out of Los Angeles. He seemed to have gone through a spell as a small-time mob enforcer – the guy who would come break your knees if you didn’t repay the loan shark – and was moaning about how he caught yet another young Filipina girlfriend cheating on him. Um, yeah, nice to catch up with you but gotta go now!