It can be for whatever reason: Their music, something about their lives, something they remind you of.
For me, Jim Croce hits the trifecta. Sad songs. Died extremely young. And he was one of the favorite singers of my first husband, who also died young (not as young as Croce). So every time I hear his voice, I turn into a blubbering mess. Okay, maybe not “Bad, Bad Leroy Brown.” But otherwise!
Am I alone in having one specific artist do this to me?
The woman who is moderately drunk and has no sense of rhythm whatsoever thinking she could go pro as she karaokes, batting her maybelline eyes as she tries to connect with her audience. Extra points if she has a moment of realization during the chorus and begins to weep.
I know that’s a lot of people’s impression of him, but oddly enough I never got that. I always felt as though he was (and is) a blink away from laughing out loud at the over-the-top kitsch of his whole persona. I take him as, in the words of Mark Prindle, “more snickering cherub than brooding artiste.”
Beautiful voice, but sometimes it seems like there’s no beginning, middle or end to her songs. Perhaps it stems from being in college 40 years ago, when 8-track tapes were popular, and “Help Me I Think I’m Falling” played non-stop in the dorms.
He depresses me too, but not for the same reason. It’s the fact that this mediocre at best, overpriced at a dime a dozen singer is hailed as a legend when I’ve seen so many incredibly gifted singers who struggled and struggled and never got anywhere.