I will give almost anybody a cigarette.
ONE cigarette.
If you’re a friend of mine, my cigs are your cigs.
And since most of my friends are smokers, it goes without saying that it’s not normal for them to be caught without cigs.
My “walking down the street” philosophy is that I won’t give a cigarette to anybody who looks like they could’ve asked for money. AKA, the homeless, random bums, creepy-looking people, etc. It takes less time to give someone money than it does a cig, because it’s guaranteed that the person who wants cash doesn’t also want to light it on fire. With a cig, there’s an excellent chance they don’t have a freakin’ lighter either, and then you have to either
a.) let them borrow yours (ew) or
b.) light it for them.
I guess giving them your lighter/matches is a third option, but I’ve rarely felt the urge.
As a female I don’t want to engage some random weirdo on the street for that length of time. I used to work downtown (at a bar) and you learn quickly that if you wouldn’t give them directions, don’t give them a cigarette.
As for taking money for cigarettes…since I work at a bar, I get a lot of people asking me for cigarettes. If you’re a good tipper, I won’t take your money. If you’re a crappy tipper, damn right I’m taking your dollar. That may be all the money I make off you.
Random people offering me money…if you’re polite and you only ask once, I won’t take your money. If you ask again, or you want more than one, I’ll take the dollar.
If you offer me a quarter I won’t take it and you won’t get a cig either. I’d rather people ask me for a cig without offering me any money than offer me a freakin’ quarter.