Snatchoff the bible belt and spank the conservative fucks that try to dictate my life

As I already fucking said, I never reported my neighbors for playing loud music late at night. You’d think if I was so self centered that I would have. Or maybe, just possibly, I feel that personal freedoms are not to be curtailed without damn good reason.

If you don’t feel “property value” is a right, why should the law value it more highly that personal freedom?

By “minimizing that noise and traffic by making the establishment less popular” the law is interfering with free enterprise and the value of the club owner’s property.

You said earlier in this thread that, in spite of your not reporting your neighbors, you considered regulations against loud music late at night to be legitimate. If I misunderstood you, please correct me. Here, I’ll ask you point blank: is it proper for a community to pass a rule restricting loud music late at night?**

I never said that property values should be valued “more highly” than personal freedom 100% of the time. I do, however, believe that economic considerations can, in certain situations, be used to legitimately justify some restrictions on personal liberty.

Consider libel law: you libel me, to my economic detriment (say you falsely accuse me of marital infidelity, causing my conservative customer base to shun my business). In that situation, I can pursue you for compensation. Saying “I’ve got an absolute freedom to say whatever I want” is no defense at all.**

Well, by passing laws to prevent loud late-night music, the value of my property is diminished. That’s one less thing I can legally do on my property. So what?

DCU, we are not dealing with a first year poli-sci class- this is a real world situation. Based on Lady’s story the bar she works at wants to have some male strippers come in for one show- this is not going to be a permanent thing. Based on a one-size-fits-all law she and many other people who intend no harm to anyone (you may want to note that “malicious intent” is a requirement of libel) are being treated like criminals. Surely your head isn’t shoved so far up that poli-sci textbook that you can’t see why she might be pissed.

I think laws infringing on personal freedom should be a last resort, specifically because the law is a blunt weapon that ignores mitigating circumstances.

I can indeed understand why she’s pissed. That doesn’t mean her rights have been violated. Anger != civil rights violation.

And malicious intent (actually, the phrasing is “actual malice”) is only required as an element in a libel suit if the plaintiff is a public figure. See New York Times v. Sullivan and its many children.

I didn’t claim it was my god given right. I said it was my right as in individual, as a human. I did construct an argument. It went something like this . . . If does not directly infringe upon anothers rights, I should have the right because I am human. If that is not good enough for you, sorry. I did not come here to argue with you. I came here to “whine”, to rant, to bitch, to moan, to gripe because I was angry. Is that not what this forum is for? I don’t believe I found it in the forum rules that unless Dewey or Jodi thinks your anger is justified, you should not complain about anything . . .

Jodi, thanks for your opinion and in advance for the opnions your online fans that you are sure will agree with you about my skull and brain size. I could frankly careless what you or anyone else thinks of me unless that person is someone I know, trust, and respect . . .

You wrote, “As I have already said multiple times, if you don’t like my definition of right, then let’s use yours.”

LOL! You didn’t have to say it multiple times, I was using my defination all along. You are the one who piped in about legal/constiutional rights. I asked you to think outside that box, for yourself. If it is not my constitutional right, legal right, god given right, what the heck is it? What does that leave? And there you have the answer. If you would put more time into thinking a bit deeper instead of trying to figure out how to be “right” it may help you a bit . . .

You wrote, “you think you have a “natural” right – endowed by nature – to drinks and T&A? It is to laugh. Where is the Fundamental Titty Bar of the Natural World, anyway? Oh, wait: There isn’t one.”

If your saying it is not my human or “natural” right as a human to T&A and drinks, then prove it is not.

Like I said earlier, you seem to have trouble thinking beyond the scope of what is and is not currently lawful or constitutional. And then because you couldn’t, you claim that I make no sense?

LOL!

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Un-uh. Doesn’t work that way. You are the one making the claim; you are the one that has to support it.

And sure, whine, bitch and moan all you want. That is what the Pit is for. But when you make an assertion such as “I have an inalienable right to drink and stare at titties,” expect to be called on it.

The one strip club in Marietta operated for years serving alcohol and then when the neice of a public offical became linked to the club, the club was prohibted from selling alcohol. And this was based on the argument from the city that the club lowered property values and increased crime in the area. Interestingly, the property values in the city of marietta continue to rise despite the existence of bars and strip clubs and crime has been unaffected either way.

Another thing that I did not mention is that this club IS still operating but does not serve alcohol. Because they do not serve alcohol, 18 years olds are allowed to enter whereas it was once strictly open to those of legal drinking age which is 21 in the state of Georgia. I am not sure why it was not closed down all together. But anyway, the marrietta city code was rewritten to reflect the new ban on alcohol in strip clubs or where sexual or lewd acts took place meaning that we could not have an all male revue in our bar. It also means that I can’t do my pub famous “cooter shooters.”

According the manager of the club, who keeps up with all the legal issues affecting the business, they should be back in full swing, serving alcohol again by the middle of next year . . .

The only thing that people when they feel that a law is unjust for whatever reason is take intitative. That means to vote and to also work towards change by putting pressure on your local and state representatives which is what I am currently doing when I am not whining and griping that is . . .

I’d really like to see mj and prostitution legalized as well. Until then, looks like I still have something to fuss about and something to work with other like minds towards . . .

:smiley:

ALadyLNO: you have made an eloquent case that the Marietta law is foolish, inconsistent and probably motivated by crass politics. You have made an excellent argument for the law’s repeal.

That doesn’t mean some fundamental right has been violated by the law’s existence, mind you. It just means there’s a foolish law on the books that ought to be dismantled via the ordinary political process.

Which claim is that? I’ll wait for you to copy and post where I made the claim about what is distinctly natural and what is not. The only claim that I made was that I had a human right. The argument about what is natural and what is not is an entirely new argument brought up by Jodi.

"You wrote, “you think you have a “natural” right – endowed by nature – to drinks and T&A? It is to laugh. Where is the Fundamental Titty Bar of the Natural World, anyway? Oh, wait: There isn’t one.” - Jodi

You wrote, “But when you make an assertion such as “I have an inalienable right to drink and stare at titties,” expect to be called on it.”

Good for you, you have called me on the fact that I feel I have a human right. Brilliant I tell you, simply brilliant . . .

Are you proud of yourself Dewey? Are glowing in with self satisfaction?

LADY –

NO RIGHT AT ALL.

Fucking duh.

Life According to Jodi - By ALadyLikeNoOther (ALLNO)

"If you have not been given the legal right, consitutional right, or if your right is not “god given,” you have no right. Human rights, individual rights, natural rights are meaningless. Why? Because they do not exist? Why? Because I said so!

The End

Jodi, individual rights have existed long before the any law or constitution. In the beginning, individuals wrote the law according to them. They “took the law into their own hands” so to speak. And that continued until someone, along with an another group of people who agreed with him, thought that they should make the law and make everyone else obey it. The rest, I shall say, is history . . . or something similar to that I imagine . . .

But just because we are more more structured and have formal laws and a document outline does not erase the existence of individual rights. They still exist, to a more or lesser extent and that depends a lot on personal opinion and perception.

I am glad to see you that you are using the “F” word tho. It is one of my favorite fucking words . . .
:slight_smile:

Living in a dry county as I do [under duress and not for a moment longer than I have to] I read this with some interest.

First, while there is a point that certain businesses could drive down property values in some areas, the fact is, zoning regulations and lease restrictions make it fairly unlikely that a strip bar is going to simply crop up overnight next to Mr. Jones’ $15 million mansion. Therefore, the point on whether or not something like that is going to happen frequently is moot. It’s not. Read through the laundry list of legal restrictions on any commercial lease, and it’s pretty obvious. Besides which, it seemed from AALNO’s post that this business has been there for some time.

Secondly, the argument has been made that these bars are ‘bad for the community’. However, sin taxes on booze and cigarettes are quite profitable for communities. I highly doubt we’ll see the same lawmakers refunding the money the strip joint paid in taxes and license fees for the year, will we?

Further, this particular attraction draws business and tax revenue. Therefore, it could equally be said that the politicians have just acted to help undermine the community’s tax base by eliminating a business draw. What precisely do the politicians wish to do to replace the money that will be lost in a time when the economy’s going down the tubes as it is?

Further, the assumption has been made that the club draws an undesirable element and causes a higher crime rate. This typically only happens if the management of the club is not on top of things, and does not keep an eye on its patrons or what goes on there. I’ve seen no evidence that this is the case in this particular instance, and therefore, I have to question the rationale in changing the law. If there is no spike in the crime rate that’s been taken care of, if there is a loss of tax revenue – what precisely has been accomplished, save a possible attempt by a band of conservatives to try to gain more conservative votes in the upcoming elections?

Thirdly, I think the real question is, do laws of this nature actually improve the community or not? After all, look at Prohibition and how successful THAT moral experiment was. I’m sure the Mafia agreed that Prohibition was a wonderful success. :rolleyes: [Surely the Kennedys did, too.]

Fourth – exploitation? I must beg to differ. If I freely choose to be paid for dancing nude, whether I am male or female, and I am an adult and mentally capable of consent, that is my choice. I am exploited only if I am forced into such a course of action, or if I am not of an age or mental capacity to consent. Therefore, I see this as depriving people of work which they have chosen to do – and thus, again, putting more people out of work. It may be someone’s opinion that I am being exploited because I have chosen such a line of work, but that is, again, opinion.

The owners of this strip bar did not suddenly open their business in the middle of a block of pre-schools and residences. No one was forced to go there. No one was forced to be employed there, insofar as we know. Therefore, what was the justification in this action? I can see none that has been presented thus far, save for the imposition of a certain brand of morality and possibly, a chance to get votes. And for my money, there’s a whole lot worse things going on in the world [and probably in that community] than some nude dancing.

For my money, I will support precisely as much government regulation as the government is willing to give up in demands of its citizenry. If I am too immature at the age of 18 to buy a drink, I should damn sure be too immature to be sent to war at that age. If I am deemed by lawmakers not to be reasonable enough at the age of 20 to buy cigarettes legally, then I should certainly not be mature enough to vote at 18, should I? If the government will allow me to get married at 16, and I do so, what purpose is served by legislating what me and my husband, as two legally married and consenting individuals, choose to consent to do to each other in the privacy of our bedroom? I must ask, what the hell is the logic of this type of legislation? And should there not be a counterbalance?

While I cannot agree that one has a ‘right’ to attend a nudie bar [not that it matters, but I’ve been once and found it pretty boring, myself], I must say that there comes a point past which the government cannot feasibly nor reasonably expect to legislate an individual’s choice on how they live their lives. And at that point, a government which wishes to continue to call itself a republic must stop attempting to legislate the choices its citizens make.

Wow. Class act all the way, I see.
You are hopelessly wrong when it comes to the big picture, you are intractible, refusing to admit that other definitions might exist, when it comes to the extremely fuckin’ minor semantic point you insist on picking like a three day old scab… Let us add that you are a complete bitch to a relative newbie…

Pure class, all the way.:rolleyes:

LADY –

I never said this. Let’s review the conversation:

YOU: I have this right!
ME: No, you don’t.
YOU: Yes I do!
ME: Well, what definition of right are you using?
YOU: [after much prodding and additional griping]Right - “Something that is due to a person or governmental body by law, tradition, or nature.”
ME: Using that definition, you obviously don’t have a right at law, or by tradition, and you also don’t have a “natural” right.
YOU: Gee, I have no idea why Jodi’s talking about natural rights, I never brought that up!

“Individual right” means a right belonging to an individual. “Human right” means a right belonging to a human. Neither of those terms says anything about (a) what right you’re talking about (freedom of speech, freedom from fear, whatever) or (b) where that right comes from. So again we’re left with “natural right,” since of the definitions you have used – at law, by tradition, natural, human, individual – that’s the only one that either applies (as “at law” and “by tradition” do not) or actually says something about the nature of the right (as “individual” and “human” do not).

So at this time allow me to make your argument for you, since you appear to be unwilling or unable to make it for yourself. The argument is: I have a natural right to do anything that does not damage anyone else. (Note that this says nothing about drinking or dancing as such.) To which the response is: Arguably, the behavior you’re complaining about does harm someone else.

In any event, any talk about nebulous unenumerated “natural rights” is largely hot air, though perhaps philosophically interesting. You may claim a “right” to do anything you want so long as no one else is damaged, but that is not a right society grants, either through law or tradition. In reality the rights you claim are merely hypothetical, and if and when you try to exercise them in reality, you will find that you don’t have them. Just as happened here. So to say that other rights “still exist [depending]on personal opinion and perception” is IMO both misleading and worthless. If you lived in a society that did not grant you a right to free speech, would you still have one? Do you think you would have one just because you say so?
GRENDEL –

In order:

  1. As it happens, I am not wrong, though I am intractible, as I often am when I think I am right. (Why would I be otherwise?)

  2. I have not refused to admit “other defintions might exist,” and you intentionally misrepresent my posts when you say that I have.

  3. The point made is not “semantic” but in fact the whole point: YOU DON’T HAVE RIGHTS YOU JUST MAKE UP.

  4. If in fact it was “three days” between my posts – which I doubt – that is because I occasionally leave the computer to work and otherwise have a life. If you feel I’ve exceeded some “response time” limit – get over it.

  5. Rest assured, I will give your opinion of me and my “bitchiness” or “classiness” all the credence I generally give the opinions of total strangers I have no reason to either like or respect. That amount, as you might have guessed, is “none.”

Jodi

  1. You are dead wrong when it comes to the big picture. Lady was complaining about a bad law- the law is in fact bad.

  2. You deny the plain moral definition, used by myself and many people instead insisting on a blindly legalistic definition.

  3. That doesn’t change the fact that a bad law is interfering with an innocent womans life and livelihood, and that is not the main point. Here’s a hint- read the thread title. Now read the OP. does your pedantic and mean-spirited hijack have anything to do with either?

  4. I never said there was “three days” between your posts… I suppose given your stated difficulty with the language that I should avoid figures of speech when you are involved in a discussion.

  5. I couldn’t care less what you think, I would just hope that you realise how needlessly meanspirited you are being over an inconsequential semantic disagreement.

GRENDEL –

Bullshit. I never took any stand on whether the law is “good” or not; I merely said that any argument that she has some “right” to drink and watch naked people dance in a public place is specious, because she has no such right.

Bullshit. I have “denied” no definition at all, nor have I insisted on any definition at all. I have no idea what “plain moral definition” you’re talking about, but assuming it is the one about having the right to do whatever you want so long as no one is damaged, I never “denied” it but rather said (a) people are arguably damaged by the behavior at issue here and (b) that is a purely hypothetical right with little or no relevance in the context of a society that does not agree with you that it even exists.

Well, yes, it does. An argument constructed on the claim to some non-existent (or non-acknowledged) right is fundamentally a bad argument. She is attacking the regulation in question on the basis that it violates a right she does not in fact have. For me to point out that she does not have that right was not a “hijack,” but then I don’t take your opinion for what constitutes a hijack, either.

Given your difficulty in following argument, I guess I should avoid using multi-syllabic words when you are involved in a discussion.

I guess I failed to convey my lack of interest in your opinion regarding me or my posting style. Must be all the big words again. But rest assured: When I want your opinion, I’ll ask for it. And – here’s a hint – even if I don’t, I’ll be more receptive to hearing it if you haven’t first gratuitously critiqued my “bitchiness” and lack of class. In the wake of those comments, your opinion on my “needlessly meanspirited” words is too deliciously “pot-kettle-black” to be anything other than amusing. But, heck – hope away.

How? How is anyone in any possible way harmed by a one time show at a bar? The bar is already there, there are strip joints in the town, the bar has planned a one time male revue? How in any way can one night suddenly turn the town into a red light district and drive the property values down?

“Society” can and has been wrong.

In my seventh post on this thread, I defined what right I was talking about. To quote myself, “Someone’s property values are more important than my individual (human) right to do with my life and my body what I choose.” It was supposed to written as a question but regardless, I stated which right I was talking about only to have you turn around and demand that I post again which right that was and to define it. The definition I gave you of right “Something due to a person by law, tradition, or nature.” is a sufficent definition as I am a human by nature and I am an human individual by nature. Therefore I have a human right, an individual right as a human that I place above the law. So again, it does not matter if I have a consitutional right, a legal right or if that right has been legally granted, it still does not change the fact that I still have a right, as an individual, as a human and because it is my right, I should have the legal right as well. That was the reason why I posted this thread to begin with, to complain about not being able to legally exercise my right.

Your review of the conversation so far is a bit off. It is more like this . . .

ME: I have this right to drink and watch naked people because it is my right as a human being to do with my body and my time as I see fit as long as it does not directly infringe upon the rights of others but Marietta does not agree so I am here to gripe about it.
YOU: You don’t have the legal right.
ME: No shit sherlock.
YOU: Which right is that again (because I obviously didn’t read all of your posts?) Explain right. Define right. You don’t have any right. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah (endlessly I might add . . . )
ME: Think Jodi, think . . .
YOU: Whatever you say or whatever definition you use, I find it unacceptable will nit pick it to death because I refuse to accept that I might be wrong about or could misunderstand anything . . .

You wrote, ““Individual right” means a right belonging to an individual. “Human right” means a right belonging to a human. Neither of those terms says anything about (a) what right you’re talking about (freedom of speech, freedom from fear, whatever) or (b) where that right comes from.”

(A) I explained in my OP what right I was talking about, I was specific at that. (B) The right comes from being human.

You wrote, “So again we’re left with “natural right,” since of the definitions you have used – at law, by tradition, natural, human, individual – that’s the only one that either applies (as “at law” and “by tradition” do not) or actually says something about the nature of the right (as “individual” and “human” do not).”

No dear, we are left at individual and or human right (I don’t see a lot of difference between the two) where I started. You merely took the definition of nature out of context. And individual and human DO say something about the nature of the right, they say a lot about the nature of the right with the use of the words individual and human. Those words define it and explain it quite well by themselves . .

Jodi, I don’t need you to make an argument for me. I’ve made my own several times and even simplified it for Dewey above when I wrote" If it does not directly infringe upon anothers rights, I should have the right because I am human. "

You wrote, “In any event, any talk about nebulous unenumerated “natural rights” is largely hot air, though perhaps philosophically interesting. You may claim a “right” to do anything you want so long as no one else is damaged, but that is not a right society grants, either through law or tradition.”

Fuck society, law, and tradition. How is that for hot air?

You wrote “In reality the rights you claim are merely hypothetical, and if and when you try to exercise them in reality, you will find that you don’t have them.”

I in reality do have the right, even if in reality the law says that I don’t. And I do exercise my rights, I do what I want for the most part. It is illegal to have sex unless you are married in the state of Georgia. I am not married and I have a lover who I have sex with. In fact, we break that sodomy law too. I also smoke pot, which is illegal. So much for the law. And if I am caught, I usually get off or a slap on the wrist. When I get pulled over for speeding, another law I regularly break, 9 times out of 10 the officer will let me go without a warning . . .

You wrote, “So to say that other rights “still exist [depending]on personal opinion and perception” is IMO both misleading and worthless.”

And that is just your “worthless” opinion . . .

You wrote, “If you lived in a society that did not grant you a right to free speech, would you still have one?”

Yes I would. Like I said in an earlier post, just because a right has not been granted does not erase it’s existence.

You wrote, “Do you think you would have one just because you say so?” Well we all have to start somewhere . . . so the answer to your question is yes.

You wrote to Grendel, “I merely said that any argument that she has some “right” to drink and watch naked people dance in a public place is specious, because she has no such right.”

You might want to rephrase that to “she has no such LEGAL right.”

You also wrote, “Bullshit. I have “denied” no definition at all, nor have I insisted on any definition at all.”

LOL! You insisted that I first verify my right and then that I define it. When I asked you think out of the little legal box you box everthing in, you got sarcastic. You even posted to me above “after much prodding.” (of a definition or explaination.) Futhermore, you refuse to accept any definition I have given and accused me of not explaining myself, like the fact that I am pissed because I think I have a human right to do something that the law denies needs any kind of explaination. What will I read next, that I don’t have the right to be pissed about anything unless you agree that is meaningful and worthwhile?

FUCK YOU! And fuck off . . .

I in reality do have the right, even if in reality the law says that I don’t.

Blah blah blah. As if it becomes any more true if you repeat it over and over and over. In reality, a state you do not appear to live in, you do not. Period. Now, go ahead and post again “yes I do yes I do yes I do!” You still don’t.

Still don’t.

Still don’t.
This is possibly the most tiresome conversation I’ve been in here, and believe me, that’s saying a lot. Like I said, if you’re just going to make up what ever right you like, you may as well make up some that have a more concrete pay off. I mean, declare a right to have unlimted chocolate. Or free dental care. Or whatever else you’re just love to have at any given moment.

You say rights that aren’t granted still exist – how can you tell? You can’t, of course, because by any practical, real-world definition, a right that society doesn’t acknowledge doesn’t exist in the context of that society. Feel free to post again “Yes it does yes it does yes it does!” and see how far that gets you when you try to do anything other than bitch about it.

And the idea that simply being human carries with it an unfettered right to do “whatever you choose” is utter bullshit. Nobody has that right. Parrot back to me that yes, you do – anyone with a functioning brain stem knows you do not.

But talking to you about this is about as productive as talking to my dog. She has the same level of understanding about the practical value of “rights” society does not recognize, and she’s considerably less shrill about insisting upon hers.

But while I occasionally have to listen to her clueless yapping, I’m not required to listen to yours. So have fun with your gripefest, which you’ll have to continue without me. Who knows – maybe if you gripe long enough and loud enough, you’ll get to have that “tits’n’drink” someday – though I’m not sure how you’ll manage to pour a drink down your throat with your head so far up your ass.

I in reality do have the right, even if in reality the law says that I don’t.

Blah blah blah. As if it becomes any more true if you repeat it over and over and over. In reality, a state you do not appear to live in, you do not. Period. Now, go ahead and post again “yes I do yes I do yes I do!” You still don’t.

Still don’t.

Still don’t.
This is possibly the most tiresome conversation I’ve been in here, and believe me, that’s saying a lot. Like I said, if you’re just going to make up what ever right you like, you may as well make up some that have a more concrete pay off. I mean, declare a right to have unlimted chocolate. Or free dental care. Or whatever else you’re just love to have at any given moment.

You say rights that aren’t granted still exist – how can you tell? You can’t, of course, because by any practical, real-world definition, a right that society doesn’t acknowledge doesn’t exist in the context of that society. Feel free to post again “Yes it does yes it does yes it does!” and see how far that gets you when you try to do anything other than bitch about it.

And the idea that simply being human carries with it an unfettered right to do “whatever you choose” is utter bullshit. Nobody has that right. Parrot back to me that yes, you do – anyone with a functioning brain stem knows you do not.

But talking to you about this is about as productive as talking to my dog. She has the same level of understanding about the practical value of “rights” society does not recognize, and she’s considerably less shrill about insisting upon hers.

But while I occasionally have to listen to her clueless yapping, I’m not required to listen to yours. So have fun with your gripefest, which you’ll have to continue without me. Who knows – maybe if you gripe long enough and loud enough, you’ll get to have that “tits’n’drink” someday – though I’m not sure how you’ll manage to pour a drink down your throat with your head so far up your ass.