So I got some bad news on New Years Day (somewhat long)

Glad you’re able to surf the Dope! (oh, yeah, and that you’re back home and have an appetite, too, I guess :smiley: )

Take care and best wishes!

Thanks for the update – I’ve been wondering how you and your lovely wife are doing.

Stay out of the Pit – that’ll make you lose your appetite again.

I somehow totally missed this thread till now.

:eek:
Hooooooly shit.
Trying to send good thoughts your way. Best wishes for the recovery.

Still thinking good thoughts in your direction!

I know it stinks when you really don’t want to eat, but just keep trying little bits at a time. I remember when it was a huge victory to eat a little plastic cup of applesauce. Baby steps!

I’m sending all the good vibes I can your way!

You and Brynda share a very similar romance story to mine and Spiny Norman’s, so I kind of feel a kinship of sorts with you guys. I’m pulling for you to make a full recovery, so we can all grow old and continue to share a similar path through life. :slight_smile:

I don’t know how in the world I missed this thread for so long.

Good wishes and generally supportive vibes are beaming your way, Rick and Brenda. If you suddenly feel a bit perkier, it might be because one of the vibes splatted you.

All the best, guys. You’re in my thoughts.

Being home, IMO, is always better than being there.

Sending more healing thoughts your way.

Sorry RickQ didn’t update this. We were just too gutted. Turns out Rick is too sick right now for IL-2. Apparently, it is a rough treatment. So the second plan was chemo to shrink the tumors and give him some more time to recover from the surgery. And then that plan got derailed by a few more days in the hospital for a blood transfusion to pump him up for the chemo.

Chemo finally started today. He is getting Torisel, which is indicated for metastatic kidney cancer.

It has been really, really hard for both of us. Rick doesn’t feel well. I am a worrier by nature, and now I have something to worry about.

This sucks beyond belief.

{{{{{{Brynda}}}}}}

Hang in there guys.

Hugs to both of you!

Shayna, I forgot to say this earlier, but I feel the same way about you guys. International doper couples–a rare, but wonderful, breed.

Thanks for the update – you two are both in my thoughts and prayers.

All the good thoughts I can send are wrapping you all in warmth and thoughtfulness.

Sending good thoughts and healing vibes to **Rick **and hugs to both of you.

Thank you. :slight_smile: But it’s more than just the international part. I, too, met my husband when I was close to 40 and we were married when I was 41. He is my first and only husband and my deepest love. And we, too, have been married 7 years, like you and Rick.

So in a way, I see your marriage through the lens of ours and it makes my heart ache for you all the more. If there is ever anything you need, I hope you’ll let us know. I’m sending all the prayers and healing thoughts I can your way.

Wow. I had no idea there were so many similarities. Give SpinyNorman a hug (as I am sure you do all the time) and be grateful you have each other. One good thing is that Rick and I don’t have to say that we wish we had been more grateful for each other. We have always known that we have something wonderful. Sounds like you do, too.

hugs and goods thoughts for you both…

Wow, I missed this thread too. Sending good thoughts your way. May you heal and rest.