Either rock fans were much more open-minded than I gave them credit for, or they really didn’t listen to the lyrics in Dude (Looks Like a Lady). The band members were more concerned about offending the gay community than stirring up a backlash from homophobic listeners. Great song.
“Desmond stays at home and does his pretty face/and in the evening she’s a singer in the band.” Inadvertent – McCartney got Desmond and Molly mixed up – but they liked it and left it in.
Most of these—or all of them— have nothing to do with the actual lives of the vast majority of trans people and are creations of cisgender songwriters looking to exploit some cheap sensationalism at the expense of trans people. Not a valid impression of real trans persons among the lot of them.
I assume “Lord Anthony” by Belle & Sebastian is about the life of a young man who either grew up to be a transvestite, drag queen, or was transgender.
Tony, you’re a bit of a mess
Melted Toblerone under your dress
And if the boys could see you they would pass you right bye
Blue mascara running over your eye
Squirrel Nut Zippers’ “Danny Diamond” is definitely about a drag queen. Usually when they preformed it live, the lyrics would be “she” all the way through until the last line, “He was a star.”
If the thread title had been, “Songs that offer a valid and accurate representation of the transgender experience, from the trans point of view,” you’d have a point.
I think that the place of transgender people within our society, and the struggles they face in a world where many people sensationalize their lives, are important issues.
But can we just name some goddamn songs here for a few minutes?
Anyhoo…
My contribution is “Candy Says” by the Velvet Underground. It’s a song about a real person. To be honest, while the song wasn’t written by a trans person, i really don’t think the lyrics are “cheap sensationalism at the expense of trans people.”
Apparently, Candy Darling was also one of inspirations behind “Walk on the Wild Side.”
A transvestite (literally, a cross-dresser) is a man who (at least occasionally) dresses as a woman (or maybe vice-versa, though the word isn’t used that way as commonly). Beyond that, the word implies nothing about the person’s sexuality, gender identity, etc.
If you’re including songs about transvestites, there’s The Kinks’ “Out of the Wardrobe” (lyrics here; songs here on You Tube). (As the YouTube comments indicate, some may find this song offensive; though I’m personally undecided whether they should, given a proper reading with the proper ironic distance. Still, IMHO it’s not one of their better songs.)