I found you quite by accident. I discovered I wanted to comment after reading some of the posts in this topic.
I am the author of the quote you posted. Dead is Just a Four Letter Word - A death experience - free ebook
At risk of being laughed out of here by those believing only what they can touch and see is real, I signed up just to do this.
I did die. “I” was not dead.
Words are symbols for thoughts and, as such, can obscure as much as enlighten. I’ll do the best I can with them.
The unique, living essence of you that you know as “yourself” is not extinquished when the body ceases to function, in my experience.
That part of you that thinks, feels, computes, loves, and knows itself as apart from any other being, continues to exist.
It remembers, communicates, shares it’s thoughts and feelings with others like itself in a way most can’t do here.
Small words, short phrases - You live. Your body is not part of “you” any more. You live without that body.
A belief system that equates “self” only with your physical existence is unrealistic.
How many of you have felt terrible and had a friend who “lifted your spirit”? Your illness was not gone, your reason for being depressed did not change, but the caring words of a friend, a hug, a touch, eased something inside you.
Inside you is meat. That didn’t change. The other “inside” is your “self”.
You don’t say “eased my brain”, you say “eased my mind”. A mind has no physical existence, but you know you have one. A brain doesn’t imagine, it’s meat. Your mind does that. Show it to me.
You have a heart of meat but that is not what breaks when love is lost, is it? The heart of your self is what hurts. That meat heart keeps beating even when you wish it would stop. That self heart doesn’t risk itself so easily again. It has to heal and mend enough to try loving again. Show it to me.
By not understanding there is an invisible part of you that exists beyond the body you ignore “it”, the very self of you. How can you nurture your self or mature your self if you don’t know you have a self that is not meat?
You can become rooted in a physical existence by the way your “mind” thinks. I believe that when your body stops working, when “you” die, you will find out you were mistaken.
I think you will be glad you were wrong. I know I was. I lived and was glad of it!
Okay, let’er rip.