Polycarp wrote:
>“What medievalist and early 20th century moralists >constructed as a complex ethical structure for doing so >turns out, when we examine it closely, to be sinning >against a variety of people, and IMHO, therefore needs to >be moved from the state of “law” to “guidance” – to be >ignored when it fails to keep the core meaning of His Law: >love of God and of fellow man.”
Here’s where you folks lose me. I, for one, believe that we can strive for a high moral standard (even one constructed long ago in different times) without “sinning against a variety of people.” I have friends outside the church for whom I care deeply who engage in behavior that is not sanctioned by the church. I don’t approve of their behavior and wouldn’t do it myself nor want my children to, but that’s their business. Should they be interested in joining the Episcopal church, IMHO they should repent and “go and sin no more.” I see no hypocracy in caring for them but not their “sin” and don’t see how my disapproval of their life choices is “sinning against them.”
For centuries various demoninations of the Christian church have held that certain actions were unacceptable. Some argue that such prohibitions were/are draconian and punitive. I, and many others, see them as an act of love.
Here’s an example: a pot of boiling water has been taken off the stove. The parent cooking supper warns her child not to touch the hot pot. The parent doesn’t want the child to be burned and have pain - - the admonition not to touch the pot is based in concern for the welfare and safety of the child. Let’s suppose the child does touch the pot and gets burned. The burn is inevitable, and is not punishment for touching the pot.
So too with church moral doctrine. Yes, it’s difficult to live up to the teachings of Jesus AND to uphold the moral code set down by our ancestors. However, the moral code is warning us that engaging in certain behaviors are like touching hot pots - - we’re likely to feel pain if we engage in them.
>“At the other Episcopal church than the one I attended >when I moved here, the son of one of the wardens was gay, >and not celibate. This was very carefully hushed up, so >that he would not be whooshed out of the church. As it >happens, he did a great deal, out of sincere faith so far >as I can tell, to benefit that parish and to help the >needy of the area. Now, what is the proper response to >him?”
The appropriate response is to express appreciation for his good works, and to challenge him that to be a member of the Episcopal church he will have to adhere to the moral standards set by the church. If he cannot do so, he is unfortunately not welcome to belong to the parish family. Tough love, I think it’s called. Other demoninations of the Christian faith have a different stand on his behavior and if he wants to engage in his lifestyle choices and be a churchgoing, practicing Christian, he needs to attend a different demonination.
>“IMHO, to love God with all your heart/soul/mind/strength >and every other human being as yourself is a tough enough >set of commandments that I’ll worry about what else he >might have said if I ever get to where I feel I’m >satisfactorily doing those two day in and day out, 24/7. >And to me that calls for being inclusive. “Tough >challenges” other than keeping those two to the fullest >are what you face while trying to do so – inside the >church – not hurdles for admission.”
That’s the C.S. Lewis view. That once I get really good at being a good person like Christ wants me to be, then I’ll worry about the technicalities. And as long as I’m doing good works and trying to be a good person, then my behavior doesn’t matter all that much, especially if I think it conflicts with some of Jesus’ teachings. You can strive to be a good person while doing your best to adhere to the church’s moral code.