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The squeaky thing is very common in Japanese pornography. For what reason(s) do you think that is?
Based on your non-scientific sampling, how do Japanese and Western women differ during sex (if they do indeed differ much)?
I think a good example would be how there is many english speaking nations, each with their own accent. We’re all saying the same thing, but it comes out a bit differently because of the way we have grown up speaking the language.
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Since this is going to be largely anecdotal, let’s move this to IMHO.
Please note that this thread was started six years ago.
Colibri
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It is the concept of infantilization of women (or “Josei no yōji-ka”「女性の幼児化」), which is prevalent and an offshoot of kawaii and otaku culture in Japan, which has less of a stigma there than in the US. Cuteness = youthful = innocence = naivete = vulnerability = sexy.
The above stated, I have been with one Japanese woman and she did not give the “Oh my, I’m so scared, this hurts, what’s going on?” performance…at all. It is an affectation I am surprised anyone has experienced in real life outside of porn.
How do one say “There’s a cobweb in one corner of the ceiling, dear” in Japanese?
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Shodan
It’s nothing new, and it’s prevalent in sex all over the world.
Being young and innocent is what’s seen as sexy. And not only are men wanting it, women realize it from a very young age that it’s what men want. Which ultimately changes their behavior.
Really it’s just natural human instinct for a man to want to plant his seed in a young healthy woman.
I find it rare to find a girl who doesn’t want to feel like her man is dominating her in bed. And producing those noises helps to give both him and her that perception. The majority of women i’ve ever been with have wanted to be spanked or call me daddy etc… And it’s because they enjoy it. They don’t want to feel like a baby, they want to know they have a man who is in control. And in turn, she feels safe thinking she has a real man who can take control.
I’ve heard this infantization theory before. And really I think that modern society is putting way too much thought into it (of course, as you said there are people who have fetishes for it, and people who produce this stuff for them). Rather than just stopping and thinking “we’re just animals, with animal instincts”
Before the current laws of society it was common practice for a full grown man to be with a girl just reaching puberty. And yes in today’s eyes it’s wrong, but in the scheme of us all just being animals, it’s just natural to go for a girl who has newly began getting her menstrual cycle.
(I am glad we do have these laws in place nowadays though, don’t get me wrong here lol)
If they like being dominated so much how come I always have to sleep on the wet spot?
Regards
Shodan
Funny enough, I actually found this thread and website because I was feeling about the same way as the original poster on the thread.
After sleeping with this japanese girl I was left surprised and curious at how she sounded like the stereotypical japanese pornstar.
Which led me to searching whether this is just normal sexual educate for them. (Cause there were such unique sounds that i’ve never even heard come out of a north American woman’s mouth before) lmao
Haha well in my own opinion, marriage and age will slowly but surely deplete the desire that is needed for such type of a sexual relationship.
bldysabba, I laughed out loud.
As mentioned already, “squeaky sex noises” are mostly a Japanese thing, so much so that Thai hookers who want Japanese customers (they tend to overpay) have taken to making them. I know farangs (Westerners) who have gone with these same ladies and had to tell them to shut up, they’ve gotten into such a habit with it.
I’ve been in China for a while, and just yesterday hooked up with a local woman, and she made the squeaky Asian noises.
Regarding Chinese women, from a sample size of three, no squeaky noises. Noises, often loud noises, but none of them squeaky.
Seconded. Same sample size.
In fact I have watched some Japanese porn with my most recent partner, and she commented (unprompted) on the whiny crying thing.
Speaking of Japanese porn:
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I second this. The generic “mmmYEAH~!” moaning annoys me so much I either mute the sound or get turned off so fast I just stop watching and go do something else. (Unfortunately, muting won’t stop creepy uncomfortable eye contact with the camera…)
The moaning and “talking dirty” annoys me so much because it’s so clearly faked, because directors evidently do that thing where they find the most generic trait and say “that, go that way!” and pull it to the wildest extreme. To be clear, moaning and talking dirty can be and sometimes are super attractive and add to the experience, but 90% of the time it ends up being nails on a chalk board because it’s so brow-lowering and distracting.
I know someone’s gonna say “porn is fiction, duh” and they’re not wrong, but it is just annoying that so much of it caters to the idea that “more canned mating calls is more better” when some people (myself included) find it far more attractive to just be genuine. Silence isn’t necessarily the solution but just being a little realistic.
Notably, a lot of people I talked to have said they moan because “they’re supposed to” because it’s what they see in porn. So porn actors/actresses just keep hitting the moan-modded Staples button.
Amateur porn in general is WAY better with this. My favorite type of porn has always been “sex, but with a camera.” Along with that are the times where people do a little cam show for their chat room or whatever, but they just act casual and natural and have fun with it. Even if it is fiction, just act natural. That’s what I and many of my friends like the most, I have a feeling it’s more common than people think to want to just watch something that’s got some form of authenticity to it, but sex is a touchy subject in most society so it’s not like as many people talk about it as it would take to get noticed. Kinda like how pornhub did a survey and found out that more surveyed men preferred smaller breasts, even though floss-supported bowling balls seem to be the American stereotype.
Unfortunately for the amateur lovers though, PH nuked the amateur section completely. And most of the ones uneducated in the way of the Power Moan were the little, unverified accounts that were right in the center of the crosshairs. Other sites are harder to navigate 
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Plus these depictions tend to show actual loving relationships. It’s kind of sweet.