I would consider Stereolab to be one of my favorite bands. I started listening to them in around 96 or so. THe local used CD shop has been Stereolabriffic, I have picked up so many of their CDs there, used.
I have Dots and Loops, Aluminium Tunes, Transient Random - Noise Bursts with Announcements, Mars Audiac Quintet, The First of the Microbe Hunters, Emperor Tomato Ketchup, Peng!, Cobra And Phases Group Play Voltage In The Milky Night, The Groop Played Space Age Bachelor Pad Music, and Sound Dust.
I like them all, so it is hard to choose a favorite. But, right now Sound Dust would be my favorite. Probably, because I have been listening to it a lot. But, also, I think it highlights Sadler’s wonderful vocals very well. Plus, it has some really neat sounding songs that shift and go all over the place - all in one track.
I think my favorite Stereolab song is Speedy Car.
I think Mouse on Mars is also a Stereolab offshoot. I forget how they are connected, but I do believe they are. I enjoy Mouse on Mars, much more electronic then Stereolab, but still very good.
I will have to check out the Sea and The Cake. I think I recognize the name, in fact, I think I might have seen them live one time. Fun show. (But, there are lots of bands with the names sea and cake in their name. So, I might be confused. Heck, Cake is another favorite band of mine.)
I am often ignorant, musically. So, I haven’t heard Sonic Youth. Are they worth checking out? I don’t like to think that Stereolab ever wanted to be anyone else, they seem so happy in their little niche.
I do think they have changed a lot from album to album. But, they have managed to keep a particular Stereolab sound to everything they do, so perhaps that is what your friends are picking up on, grendel
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