Not sure if this is off topic but I feel like I have to address it.
The real meaning in this stuff can be very hard to explain because the Buddhist notions of “identity” and “Self” do not correspond well to Western notions. Without getting into a long sematics discussion, I’ll try and make a couple points:
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There’s a distinction between sensations and emotions. Pain is pain is pain, and you feel physical pain when you put your hand over a flame regardless of whether you are “enlightened” or not. Emotions follow from sensations. Or sometimes just pop up for no apparent reason, like thoughts. Buddhism seeks to alleviate suffering as it derives from the emotions. Although it is possible to actually train the mind to not register pain consciously, this sort of thing is not the objective of Buddhist mind training. If it is done, it is mostly an exercise in understanding that even one’s physical sensations are subjective because awareness can be controlled on a very fundamental level.
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One learns to overcome suffering not by suppressing emotions but by understanding them in the context of how the mind works. As a trivial example, you might come to understand that a painful memory is just a memory and perhaps has nothing to do with your current life situation, and in that way, while you don’t necessarily eliminate the memory you might A) alleviate some of the discomfort you feel emotionally when the memory arises, or at least B) learn to seperate your emotions when you remember from your current situation, so that you don’t act out.
C) As for bringing an end to feelings and emotions, again, the point is not to supress emotions but just to learn not to judge them or to let them control you. I have found that, over time, as I become more honest with myself and better at observing myself, rather than the emotions becoming numb, they become more and more intense, because there’s less other psychodrama going on between me and what I’m feeling. At the same time, however, you do gain some perspective on what the “value” of emotions is. “Boy I’m angry and I really need to do something about it” turns into “Boy I’m angry. This sure feels interesting. Oh well.”
Not that I’m Mr. Enlightened or anything, but I feel like this stuff is often very misunderstood.
Back to the topic:
It also seems to me that if everything was absolutely perfect and there were no bad things of any kind, God would be out of business.
Yeah, that’s that whole carrot-and-stick thing again. If you take that out of the equation, you really have to re-think your “relationship” with God.