secretkeeper , darlin, you need some good old-fashioned country music. Nobody does heart-broken like those folks. Try Patsy Cline. Just about any Patsy Cline will do. I like kd lang’s Pure Torch and Twang CD, too. Cowboy Junkies are also great and a little less hard-core country.
The Magnetic Fields aren’t country at all, but they have some wonderful break-up songs. My current favorite by them: “If You Don’t Cry, It Isn’t Love.”