Support the Children and Families of Iraq.

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Many posters have expressed interest in helping me bring smiles to the faces of the war torn children of Iraq. Well… more smiles, anyway, because they are surprisingly smiling already. In most neighborhoods the children wave, they smile, they salute… yesterday a little girl about 4 or 5 years old blew kisses as she waved.

It is these children who will see the most benefit from our actions in Iraq. The elderly can only dream of what they will never experience. The younger men and women are living in an unfortunate era of transition. The future we help them build may not come soon enough to compensate for their sacrifices of the present and suffering of the past.

But the children, and most certainly their future children, will grow up in a stable self-governing democracy. One that is rich in culture, rich in oil, and rich with freedom. And I will be proud to know that I made a small sacrifice to do all that I can to ensure that it happens. Those children will grow up under a veil of liberty, learning of government oppression only from text books and not first hand experience. Their parents–Iraq’s present day children–will speak of how the Americans came, and how we treated them. And how we did everything we could to help them.

….and how we brought them soccer balls :smiley: These kids are eager for soccer balls. I don’t know what unit first handed out a soccer ball, but their effects are still lingering. The kids love chocolate too. All I’ve had to throw them recently was pop tarts, muffins, and some candy.

I think its awesome so many Dopers want to help out and give these kids some things to keep them happy. So here’s how this thread will work
I’ll come here periodically to request other things that I can think of or that I see a need for. As much as I can, I will post picture of the kids receiving the treats and balls.

Dopers can also ask me any kinds of questions you might have. Like some kind of “Ask the Infantry Squad Leader in Iraq” or something. I’ll answer as best I can. Please just ask questions though. If you want to pit me or debate something, start a thread elsewhere and post a link in this thread.

Also, no comments like, “Sorry you had to go there” or “Sorry the Army sent you there”. Though I appreciate it, I did specifically request to come here. Had I not done so, I would still be enjoying my easy-ass desk job at Ft Benning until at least 2009. The Army didn’t send me here against my will. On the contrary, I demanded that I come here. I really miss my wife right now, but that is a burden I chose to bear.

Anyway, so here we go:

Requested Items:
-Soccer Balls
-Candy
-SDMB T-Shirts, Size Small (I thought this would be neat. Most of these kids can use a new shirt or two. I will get some pics of them wearing the SDMB Shirts. What better way to symbolize freedom of speech and tolerance of other beliefs?
-Battery Operated Lights*
-A Sign Language Book written in Arabic**
-Anything else you can think of. Make suggestions in this thread!!!

*Most houses I’ve been to have electricity. They usually have a personal generator, or a large generator shared by the community. Others are getting it from who-knows-where. I don’t pretend to understand the current, complex electrical infrastructure of Iraq. BUT, the people lose power for a variety of reasons:

  1. Blackouts? From reading the same news articles you do, I assume at least some Iraqis are on the grid, and there is just too much demand.
  2. Soliders cut their power. This is common collateral damage. There are wires galore out on the streets leading everywhere. I would not say that Iraq has power lines. It’s more like power WEBS. I’ll try to get pictures. Anyway, suspicious wires are often cut while on patrol. And after you’ve watch several of your buddies blow up from booby traps, every wire becomes suspicious. This is usually a quick fix, though. The wires are cut close to the houses and it’s simple for the homeowner to come out and add another splice.
  3. A majority of the power lines (webs) are very low hanging. Our large vehicles often tear through the lines. This takes longer to fix, since they have to go gather more line and figure out what part of the web our vehicle snapped.

Suffice it to say, it’s not uncommon for us to enter a house that temporarily has its power out. The other day I was thinking about those Tap Lights. And I think I even saw a commercial once for a battery operated lightbulb that you could but anywhere in the house. Anyway, I think those would be a really great gift for some of these families. Don’t you think?
Yesterday I entered a house—one that I knew had power. But they were there in the dark. On the living room table the father was helping the children with their school work under the light of a gas lantern. They could have used one of those light bulb things, I think.
But they were not distraught. They just drove on and went about life, patiently waiting for the power to turn back on. We were there for probably 30 minutes before the power came back on. During that time, the kids brought one of their English Books over to my soldier and asked him to read from it. They went back and forth. First he’d read a line, then they’d repeat it. It was a great social experience. People pay a lot of money all over the world to have Americans read English to them. I was reminded of English Academies in Korea.
Anyway, the power came back on and the mother brought food and that Iraqi bread to offer us. We ate and communicated as best we could. Then, it was back out into the dark streets, back out on patrol.

**Same family has a deaf daughter. She is probably 5 I think. She communicates with her hands but it does not appear to be an organized sign language. I don’t think she’s ever learned to sign. It appears to be just gestures. I would love to give that family a Sign Language book. So she could learn and they could better communicate with their daughter. I don’t know much about Sign Language though. I know there is “American Sign Language”. Is that just for the US though? Is there an International Sign Language? What would be best for this girl to use? Anyway, some kind of sign language book written in Arabic at a kindergarten or 1st grade level would be great. Maybe even a supplimental book for the parents?
How to send the items:

Snail Mail:
I’d rather not post my mailing address here. So, if you would like to mail something, send fisha an email. She (he?) will email you my address.
onetrikponyATgmailDOTTcom

There are currently 32 soccer balls for sale on this camp. 10 in a private shop, and 22 in the AAFES Shopette. They are $8 for the cheap ones, and $9 for the other ones. The difference escapes me. Until that supply runs out, the best way to donate a soccer ball is via Paypal. (Unless you happen to buy soccer balls in bulk elsewhere or something)
I know it’s impersonal, but it’s the cheapest and most efficient method for soccer balls and chocolate. Other candy might be cheaper to ship over, though. Especially after Halloween.

Paypal
My paypal email is the same on in my SDMB Profile. There is currently zero dollars in there, so it will be easy to figure out how much I’ve been sent. 100% of all Paypal funds will be spent on the Iraq families and their children. If you want to specify what your money should buy, you can do so. If you just want to send 5 dollars via Paypal, you can be confident that your 5 dollars went into a bag of candy or a T-shirt or something for the children of Iraq.

Other rules:
If you want to write a message on your gift, feel free. But NO RELIGIOUS WITNESSING!! I am not here to spread the word of Jesus Christ or convert anyone or anything close to that! I am not on a holy crusade here. Please respect the beliefs of these people. If your church group or something would like to get involved in this, I welcome it. But do so for the sake of giving and helping, and not for the chance to preach or convert. Thanks.

All other messages are welcome!! If you donate to Paypal and want me to put your name and a message on a soccer ball or something, just specify and I’ll do it. That way your message and present gets distributed across the world with the click of a mouse!

Wow, I wrote a lot. I have a lot of pictures I want to share, but my camera is in the truck. Expect some soon!

So, I think that’s it for now. Questions? Comments?

My wife and myself will discuss what we can send.

Thank you for doing this :slight_smile: .

Thanks for letting me help you and the kids out, Bear.

My email is in my profile. I will respond the same day to any I receive.

A couple of tips when sending things to Iraq.

The best way to ship most packages is by using flat rate boxes. You can get them from the PO for free, and while you are there, you might as well pick up a few customs forms to fill out at home, instead of the post office.

http://www.usps.com/shipping/flatrate.htm

Because a military address is considered in the United States, the flat rate is 8.95 to ship.

Beanie babies are also a good thing for patrols, easy to stash in pockets, small and flexible. Good as packing material, too.

Another option for lighting, although somewhat pricy is crank lights.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/search-handle-url/index=sporting-index&field-keywords=crank%20lights&results-process=bin&dispatch=search/ref=pd_sl_aw_tops-1_sporting-index_35045492_2&results-process=default

Chocolate will keep now that it’s cooler. Good way to pass along Halloween candy.

Feel free to pick my brains, I’ve done quite a bit of this.

Those crank lanterns are perfect. And great suggestion about the Beanies. Thanks for helping!!

Bear, thank you for your hard work and sacrifice. You and your friends are in the thoughts and prayers of my family and friends.

To anyone interested in sending things:

The Oriental Trading Company has lots of little toys and novelty items that you can get in bulk. Please keep in mind that whatever you send should have no religious message at all and no nationalistic emblems. Keep things as neutral as possible.

My friend’s nephew was in Baghdad (just got home). His unit “adopted” a little girl who had been orphaned after her parents were targeted by insurgents (not an incidental killing but an assassination). She was the sister/daughter/niece that the soldiers missed at home. We sent boxes of hand-me-down clothes for her and for the soldiers to pass out to the various families and relief groups. Make sure the clothes are modest (no risqué images, wording or styles. Disney and Looney Toons stuff is good but no Aladdin or Porky Pig). He said that shoes were a big hit, especially “flip-flops”.

He said that everywhere he went on patrol he always had a couple beanie babies in his vehicle. Frisbees and Crayons, too.

If you are willing to broaden your horizons a little, go to a store that specializes in Arabic goods. Bridgeview, a suburb in the SW of Chicago, has a huge Arabic population. We went to a book store and asked for suggestions of English/Arabic children’s books that we could send. The owner was so touched at what we were doing that he sold it to us at his cost. That’s right. He didn’t make a single dime on the sale. He also pointed us to local stores and suggested certain treats to send. Keep in mind that some foods are not in keeping with halal (the Islamic equivalent of kosher) so be very careful of foods you send.

Here ya go. So don’t forget the pumps.

I won’t contribute even though I don’t doubt your motives.

I thought you were asked nicely by the OP to keep politics out of this thread, hawthorne.

Go threadshit somewhere else.

I don’t doubt your motives, either.

I read bear_nenno’s requests and adhered to them, fisha, even though he certainly did not keep politics out of his OP. I was nice and will continue to be so.

I aqm trying to send by paypal I got this message:This recipient is not yet registered. PayPal will send an email to the recipient explaining how to complete your transaction.

Am I doing it right? I tried to send it to the address in profile.

Never mind. I finally got it through.

Frisbees is a sweet idea! I can already imagine throwing those from the vehicle and watching the kids chase them :smiley: Thanks for the imput and ideas!!
Whatever you guys send, I will do my best to distribute!

hawthorne, my OP may be idealistic, but it isn’t intended to be political. I simply gave my ambitions and motivation for helping. If a person feels that the US has completely destroyed that country in a vain, futile attempt to secure its oil and empower a puppet government. Well… then I’d think that would be even more reason to donate. We can help rebuild the infrastructure one water filter, and one Crank Light at a time. And might as well keep the kids entertained (distracted) while their parents suffer and their fledgling government tries desperately to distinguish the country’s roaring flames of despair.

Yea, I’d think that a person with the most negative, pessimistic view of the entire Operation–from intentions to actions–would actually be more likely and willing to support the families of Iraq and their children. That seems logical, anyway.

That’s me. Did you get my donation? I had trouble with paypal. I either sent you one donation or four… yeah I’m stupid.

I got two so far. So if your initials are JL or MW, I got it. And BTW, thanks to both of you!! You guys don’t fuck around.

No matter what our views on the current political climate, I’m glad we can come together and agree that the children are growing up in a rotten environment, tainted with the destruction and loss that all war brings, and if there’s anything we can do to make it any easier or nicer for them, we will.

By the way, here are some quick pictures of who you’re helping!

One of my favorite. I didn’t give this kid anything–no treat, no candy. He is smiling simply for the fact that he is young and happy. It’s amazing how children who have never known anything different can be so happy simply with what they have.
http://img232.imageshack.us/img232/430/iragiboyax6.jpg

This is another favorite. A lone Iraqi boy playing in the street on his Big Wheel while part of his neighborhood burns uneventfully behind him.
http://img225.imageshack.us/img225/4066/dsc00040wy3.jpg

Kids outside of the vehicle. Catching what little candy and things I have to throw them.

Like I said, they’re almost always smiling.



I have a few more I really like, but it takes forever to upload anything. I’ve been working to get these things posted for a couple hours now!!

There are tons of little toys at the dollar store that might be good- I know there are bunches of Frisbees and things of that nature (I only know this because we send that crap to Iraq for my military friends to play with heh).

Thanks for the message on myspace, Bear. I’ll get things together over the next week and ship it off.

Oh, so what about school supplies? Paper and pens, maybe? My roommate brought up the good point that of course it’s great to send toys and fun stuff, but it’s extra good if something is fun and educational. We’re nerds, what can I say? Anyway, so the problem is of course that, you know, most learning stuff here is in, well, English. Any suggestions? Or should we stick to super fun stuff like candy and toys? (I really don’t mind either way, to be honest :slight_smile: ).

And I absolutely love your pictures! Really great photos, seriously. I just love those spur of the moment, real types of pictures- particularly when it comes to wars. I especially like the one of the back of the American soldiers. What? I’m a 21 year old girl, stop judging me!

Bear how long you gonna be there? If it’s going to be a while we might bump into each other.

I’ve got a couple of hand cranked flashlights headed your way, Bear_Nenno. Thanks for doing this. And thank you for serving - we need more guys like you out there.

Damn straight. Helping out the kids is a cause that should never be political. Kids are kids. Helping them is a no-brainer.

Would crayons, paper, pencils, coloring pencils, markers, that sort of thing, be appropriate?

Balloons, slinkies, etc?

All those are great things. One thing I have heard though, books for children in English aren’t necessarily helpful.

I haven’t done this for a couple of years now, I’ll have to do some research, but shoes, even flip flops, were always requested, or gently used kids shoes.

Remember folks, Iraq is 9 hours different. So if it’s 5:00 PM here, it’s 2:00AM there. Bear should be sleeping, so it might take him a while to respond. Plus they try to keep busy.

Thanks for all the email requests, I’m trying to answer as fast as I can.

fisha based on what I saw dopers do when one of ours needed help, I hope you have plenty of spare time.

Bear Pay Pal sent.
I will try to find some beanie baby type stuff to send via snail mail.

What size soccer balls? I didn’t know they came in sizes. :confused: