I’m 39. And a half. I know this means menopause will start knocking on my door, but I say fuck off. I don’t think it’s taking me seriously, though, and is stubbornly refusing to leave. :::knock knock knock:::
I have a ridiculous female family history–every adult woman has had a hysterectomy rather than gone through menopause, going back at least 3 if not 4 generations; I count 6 individuals–wrought with conditions such as endometriosis (the most prominent condition), polycystic ovarian syndrome, and uterine cancer. There’s breast cancer, too, for a little extra fun.
Anyway, since the birth of my second child, my cycles have been much more severe, and my monthly symptoms (fatigue, insomnia, bloating, super heavy flow, migraines, irritability, etc.) are similarly wild-swinging. Despite eating healthier than I ever have in my life–I’ve never been a foodie and don’t care for most junk food–I have stubborn weight just around my belly, making me look perpetually 6mos pregnant. I’m about 10lbs overweight, so not terrible, but it’s weirdly nearly all in one place.
When I had my annual well-woman exam this year, I brought my concerns and my long female history. I didn’t want to seem hysterical–pun intended, heh–because when things start changing in my family, things go wrong, badly wrong. I’m hoping to be the first to duck the family history trend. (My oldest sister already (at 47) has had a partial hysterectomy due to her PCOS.) My doc understood and ran a complete battery of tests. I’m waiting for the results of the bloodwork, and the pelvic ultrasound was unremarkable except for a thickened uterine lining, which the doc said explains the heavy bleeding. Because of the history (aunt had precancerous cells in her uterine lining, leading to her hysterectomy), they took a biopsy and I’m waiting for its results as well.
I’m wondering if I have an estrogen-progesterone imbalance. The doc has started me on Lo-Estrin FE to try and get my hormones to calm the fuck down and balance out, but I don’t know if it will do that. Damn straight I’m hoping. The drunk-half-awake-fatigue/can’t relax or effing sleep monthly rhythms are getting in the way of me being me, dammit, and the super heavy flow doesn’t exactly make a day go well.
I confess I am hoping balancing the hormones will make me stop the crazy water retention and at least partially shrink the no-I’m-not-pregnant belly.
Anyway–ladies, who has BTDT with the joys of hormones not keeping their shit together? Will Lo-Estrin help my stormy seas calm a bit?
Being a woman rocks, but the maintenance is a bitch. So to speak.