Tapping on a can IS a placebo - a pet peeve of mine. Do these people also tap on two-liter bottles, and if so for how long? Do they tap on champagne bottles, too?
Does seltzer require more or less tapping than a cola?
Working with the technical nature of foamy fluids, known as two-phase flow, I can assure you the tapping just delays one from opening the bottle prematurely. Thus, it just gives one a false sense of security - working only by coincidence.
It does not serve to re-dissolve the CO2 back into the liquid! The benefit is nil. Do you think there’s a little guy tapping on water at the bottling plant to make carbinated water?
[Think of the bigger picture: For the chemical industry, foam and/or bubbles present many a major headache! If tapping DID work, the chemical industry would be mighty greatful since this is a major nuisance when pumping fluids around, preparing batches, etc., etc., etc.]
When a soda can “explodes”, we are witnessing the fact that the gas is moving fast enough to entrain the liquid at the surface along with it. Sea spray is the same effect - the air moving along the surface of the water entrains droplets of water along with it.
Fisherman should be able to relate, here.
Beware that a can (or bottle) doesn’t even have to be agitated for this to occur. A warm soda can is a prime candidate to “explode” since gasses are less soluable as temp. increases. At the extreme, an unopened fizzy beverage trapped in a car on a hot day can self-destruct!
Also, although rare, in airplanes, it has been witnessed where pressure differential between cabin pressure and inside the soda caused an entire serving cart of soda cans to erupt spontaneously!
…Just hum “Tiny Bubbles” without tapping!