I’d get a couple of books from your local shop and read up. Or even go on line and google epilepsy.
I have temporal lobe epilepsy myself. I also had 8 exciting months of gran mal seizures after being given Paxil and later, Effexor. SSRIs and the Inkleberry do not mix.
I don’t remember my gran mals- I can only remember before and after some of them. I had the most in my sleep. They leave you very sore and disoriented, and after a sezuire I would always burst into tears, even though I wasn’t feeling sad or anything.
The temporal lobes are just weird. I smell things before they start. Sometimes that’s the extent of it. But often I have sensory disturbances- such as my head feeling too big for my body, or ants crawling beneath my skin, or a sense of floating, or the world looking like I am under water. Sometimes I can act really weird too, cry for no reason, get angry for no reason, that sort of thing. Sometimes I have trouble speaking during them- rather, I know what I want to say, but the wrong words come out of my mouth.
Certain things trigger seizures for different people. These triggers can be things like stress, sleep dep, drugs, menstrual cycles, strobe lights, illness, etc. Mine are strobe lights, sleep dep (very sensitive to this), and certain sound frequencies like bass, or in one odd case, an air conditioner that was on the fritz.
Diagnosis involves many things including MRIs, EEGs (sometimes with bonus nasal lead!), neurological evaluations, and other fun things. YMMV.
Many people take meds to control their seizures. I do not. The meds I was given only made life much worse for me. I spent 18 months on the Ketogenic diet, which, while exceptionally nasty, did help. Think Atkins, but much more vile, and a lot of heavy whipping cream. Oh, and a computer tells you what to eat. But worth it, at least for me. Otherwise, I can keep everything in check with a balanced diet, regular sleep, avoiding triggers, etc.
I can and do drive, although I almost lost my license when I had the gran mals. I haven’t had one in 10 years and they were medication induced, which is a bit different. The complication with me is that I also have MS and RSI nerve problems, and so sometimes it’s hard to tell what is causing what. Did I just jerk from something Jacksonian, or something MS-related? Is that tremor from the RSI, MS, or something else?
It’s good times. Between everything, I keep the porcelin manufacturers in good business. 