I grew up on the “east side” (Illinois), but both of my parents are St. Louis natives. I only got occasional exposure to St. Louis growing up, but coming from a small, blue-collar community, the “big city” seemed pretty cool to me as a kid and a teenager.
I left for the Army in '86, wound up in Texas in '88, and went native. I’ve only been back to St. Louis for Christmas until my Mom was diagnosed with cancer last summer. I moved up from Texas and helped her as best I could until she passed away on January 6th. I considered moving back to Texas, but wound up staying as the last of my blood kin is still here.
Between Mom’s illness and death, I haven’t looked up and around enough to get a really good feel for the area, except to say that I think it is an old, crowded, run-down, ugly Industrial-boom/post-Industrial bust city. Ugly aesthetically and ugly culturally. I remembered Forest Park, The Arch and Fox Theater as being beautiful, neat attractions, but have been warned off from them by friends and relatives because of the robberies, murders, drug dealers, prostitutes and crooked police shaking people down.
The racial tension can be cut with a knife (and it didn’t get any better with the Catholics importing Bosnians by the thousands); the employment situation is horrendous (partly because of the aforementioned Bosnians undercutting the job market); the evening news is mostly an on-going violent crime report; the personal property taxes are mind-boggling, and the city-versus-county-versus-state politics are simply a mess.
To illustrate: the state recently passed a concealed carry law, which was immediately challenged by numerous counties as an “unfunded mandate.” Okay so far, no real problem with this on my part. But the St. Louis county chief has flaty refused to accept applications for the concealed carry permit, and both city and county chiefs have vowed to arrest anyone [that they catch] from any other county in Missouri with a valid state-approved concealed carry permit. They have vowed to search every vehicle they stop for concealed weapons.
It is so bad that an off-duty city police officer was recently arrested in the county for carrying concealed, even though city police departmental policy either allows or requires off-duty officers to be armed.
Now I don’t have a concealed carry permit, and am not interested in getting one, but this is just one example of the numerous internecine conflicts between St. Louis city, St. Louis county, and the rest of the state of Missouri.
And it isn’t just a “gun issue” with me. Another example: South I-270 from I-55 to J.B. Bridge is torn up and left in a mess because of politics. The contractor doing the construction had the specifications for the cement changed in the middle of his job by an MDOT bureaucrat of the opposite political persuasion, and was told that he’d have to cover the cost of tearing up all the work his company had done and replacing it out of their own funds. It went to court and was resolved, as work has recently resumed, but it was at a standstill for 6 months before I moved up here last July.
On Bosnians: Your company may be an exception, but you might expect to have to deal with Bosnians who don’t speak English, refuse to learn English, and frankly resent the hell out of you for even implying that they be expected to converse with you in English in the course of their job.
The one good thing I can say for St. Louis and Missouri: it’s not Illinois.
There may be worse places to live and raise a family, but I haven’t personally lived in any of them.