This is what I meant about a person’s mannerisms and common facial expressions often reflecting their inner character.
Well, since we’re on the subject, I’m going to express some disagreement with this. I’m not seeing why discussing someone’s appearance – either critically or approvingly – should make anyone “uncomfortable”, unless they themselves were the target. At worst, it might be considered superficial or perhaps even juvenile, but this is the Pit, after all. In any case, the point I was making is that I find her unattractive because of what I know of her character, and I have difficulty disentangling the two.
But what I more seriously have a problem with is the suggestion by some that this is somehow misogynistic, or at least misogyny-adjacent. That’s just simply not what the word means. Here are two different definitions:
- Hatred or prejudice against women, typically exhibited by men (from Britannica)
- Feelings of hating women, or the belief that men are much better than women (from the Cambridge dictionary)
I haven’t seen anything in this thread that could even remotely be described by those definitions, IMHO.