If you live in Michigan, two things are constant at nearly every party: beer drinking and euchre. It isn’t so much a part of our Northern Culture as it seems to be a part of our collective DNA’s. You are either a Euchre player or not.
I grew up on the taste of Nyquil as a youngster and went over to mixed drinks with practiced eased. Beer drinking wasn’t the thing in my Irish family, we were a more sophisticated gaggle of Catholics. Eventually, because of being involved in a German Folk Dance Group ( in which we were paid in beer/wine and food for our performances) I switched to wine, as the German beer we received for free that would give most beer snobs stiff ones, left me with an unpleasant taste in my mouth. If I wanted to dance publically while under the influence, one learns to adjust and adapt.
As card games go, it was usually Michigan Rummy. fast paced, chaotic and filled with loads of laughter and cheating. Euchre was something that everyone did when they played cards with friends, not family. So I never learned the game.
A couple weeks ago I was dragged out of the comforts of my warm, cozy environs to go To The Bar. I have always eschewed The Bar scene. Too noisy. Too smokey, filled with assholes and too pricey. I realized, however, that the inner curmudgeon in me could be greatly entertained by People Watching, He’s In The Closet and Spot The Whore
I had three Slippery Nipples butterscotch schnapps & Bailey’s and spent $15 just in three puny drinks. The tightwad in me was greatly annoyed and affronted and the next time I was dragged out to the bar (a couple of days later in celebration of my birthday) and made the switch to beer. The drink of the common man. Two things I am not:common or a man.
I asked for a recommendation by our guy friend, who is either my next husband or my husbands man-bride (as he has become the official date for either of us for any situation) and went with Coors Light. ( Hey, we gotta start somewhere.) The fact that I wasn’t instantly repelled by its taste was slightly amazing to me. The fact that I had three and wasn’t even drunk ( I was entering into the Very Chatty Phase) was a greater testimony of the watered down effects of this beverage.
What had I been missing for twenty plus years?! All the mocking and beer fueled therapy sessions. Friendships made and lost. World problems solved while fondling a long neck. Oh the regrets I have!
Last night, my husband, the euchre player, was called in to be the Emergency Substitute Player-Story Teller-Drinker with our neighbors annual Xmas Euchre Tourney. This is a position he has filled in at least 10 times in 10 years. Really, I told my neighbor, why not just invite him along straightaway? Mr. Ujest decided to allow me to fill his position, assuring our neighbor that my euchre skills were at the same level as his. (Not far off the mark.) and I was flung into a Whole New World starting at 7pm last night.
The first hand was played open and I instructed everyone to talk to me as if I were retarded. Our table was referred to as The Short Bus, but eventually, the moniker stuck to my Neighbor as whatever table she was playing at finished their round last. Though the rules they had forgotten to explain to me in the beginning consistantly were added in lightening fast fashion, making my head spin, everyone was wonderful too me. I played conservatively ( never picking up the trump) and renig’d ( sp?) twice. ( The first it was realized no one explained it to me and the second, I knew I did it after I tossed out the other Jack of that suit. My facial features must have been my tell as I winced.
I drank only two beers during my crash course. ( Hey, I had two hundred yards to drive home during a sleet storm. Besides, I didn’t think it wise to get too lubricated while under the patient tutelage of 11 other people. )
I fully expected to come in last in the points and I didn’t. I ended up sharing last place with someone else and we split a pot of six dollars worth of quarters.
I cannot wait for the next chance to play euchre.
I cannot wait for the next chance to drink beer.
After 41 years, I have become a true Michiganderanian.