Hopefully, forty years from now, another president will talk about the shameful parts of our history where we didn’t let gay people marry and you could discriminate against someone just because they were gay.
I’m not disagreeing with you about the bigotry. But do we not have to reconcile that charge with the fact that a majority of Black protestants oppose gay marriage? According to the Washington Post, it’s 60%. Blacks in Congress are doing their best to split the issue away from being a civil rights issue. And Black clergy organizations like the Black Ministerial Alliance, the Boston Ten Point Coalition, and the Cambridge Black Pastors Conference have issued statements opposing gay marriage. Are there really that many bigots in the African-American community?
Fine by me. I’d probably dislike the way you dress if we met. We all have things about one another that we don’t like.
BUT. . . .
Attempting to take away my civil rights on that basis and writing discriminatory laws to enact your personal biases into the civil framework of our society is bigotry.
Well, duh. For every one person who raises a principled objection against the laws being unfair, there are a dozen who merely want them changed to be unfair in their favor.
Disagreeing, no. But disagreeing to the point of intolerance of other “ways of life” is exactly what the word “bigot” means. Hate to break it to you, but there’s language for you.
You want to disagree with what you perceive is the gay “way of life,” you go right ahead. I’m pretty confident that you know fuck all about what my “way of life” is and why anybody else has any business at all disagreeing with it or in fact having any opinion about it one way or the other.
Bush lacks support among blacks. From a purely political perspective, championing the cause of “defending marriage” makes a lot of sense. It gives him a chance to split off one group against another–“You don’t like gay marriage, I don’t like gay marriage; we’re the same–vote Republican.” Demonizing one group as a way of enticing another has historically been quite an effective tool.
The sad part is that because this is the popular mainstream opinion, the Democrats can’t take the ball and run the other way, because they’d be alienating a big part of their base.
Why is “disagreeing” with the gay “way of life” not bigotry? I could decide that I “disagree” with the black “way of life” - and no one would be there to defend me against charges of bigotry. Such a mindset would make just about the same amount of sense as disagreeing with the gay “way of life”.