As always, nice post Glitch.
The one thing that I haven’t seen here, but could have missed, is talk about what a ‘real’ situation is. A lot of talk about the effectiveness of grappling, etc. seems to imply a one-on-one fight. A duel, as it were. Unfortunately, I have never seen a duel. My experience in life has shown me that rarely do two people get angered at one another and decide to ‘step outside’ and deal with each other using fisticuffs…Nope, in my life I always see one guy with about four friends behind him starting a fight with another guy. Sometimes it will be six on three (in a pub, between two groups of friends) or some other mis-matched exchange. But never a ‘fair fight’.
Anytime a ‘fair fight’ starts to happen, other people step in, girlfriends drag their boys away, bouncers come by, strangers break it up, etc. There might be one or two punches thrown, but nothing remotely resembling a true contest of skill where one MA can be used against another MA.
This is where I have a problem with grappling in the ‘real world’. I have studied BJJ and Shootwrestling and feel I am the better for it, but I would never want to actually have to use it in a real fight because a real fight means that I am not able to walk away, and that means I’m being jumped by a few guys. The LAST thing I want to do is go to the ground when there is more than one opponent. And, like I said, there will always be more than one opponent (especially if one considers that you should always be able to walk -or run- away from a one-on-one situation). In the real situation grappling is going to benefit me by landing properly and getting back up so I can run away.
The most useful aspect of grappling that I have found is that it makes it easier for me to break up a fight. (Well, actually, learning how to fall has saved my life a few times) I have bounced door and have needed to subdue someone from attacking another person, but he wasn’t attacking me directly and I was able to tie him up before he knew what was happening.
Other people’s experience might be different. Maybe ‘fair fights’ do happen to y’all. I have simply never seen or experienced it since 10th grade 15 years ago. YMMV, but I want a very aggressive, devastating, heavy on the martial, light on the art, style when it comes to defending myself.
This is where I have my moral problems with weapons. I don’t believe that a weapon fight will be a duel, but I do see the logic in knifing an opponent or two or three so I can get away, even if they are un-armed (which is very illegal, but when faced by multiple opponents and possibly protecting my wife and child, I think I’d like to take my chances in the courtroom, not the streets). But, that is a problem that I have yet to make up a clear decision on. Until then I will do as I have and study MA (currently Thai boxing), keep in shape, avoid dangerous situations and walk away. It has served me well for the last 18 years, I think it will serve me well into the future.
-Tcat