When my dad and I went hunting, he would always make me responsible for finding our way back to the car. Sometimes he would pretend to get lost on the road back home and ask me which way to go.
This practice may sound dangerous for non-Dutch, but in The Netherlands it is impossible to get far away from civilization. The ‘woods’ consist mostly of relatively small patches of wood that are intersected with lots of hiking trails, and mostly very close near motorways and populated areas.
Furthermore there is no dangerous wildlife to speak of. Supposedly there exist poisonous snakes (adders) but I’ve never heard of anyone encountering any. No bears, sometimes there is a sighting of a wolf.
The most serious danger would probably consist of falling into a trench, or getting hit by a car if you were foolish enough to try to cross a busy motorway (a large proportion of motorways are lighted, though I’m not sure about the countryside).
I’m actually not sure how widespread nightly ‘droppings’ are; I only participated in a daytime scavenger hunt where we got lost for a while. It is not a rite of passage for every child, but neither is it rare AFAIK.
It’s like the baby Martians in Heinlein’s Stranger in a Strange Land. You send the young out to compete and try to survive, and you collect the hardiest ones back.
Reminds me of my Order of the Arrow “ordeal” – you get sent out into the woods and spend the night on your own. I think almost all of us got back in the morning.
They say Spartan kids received no shoes, or clothes other than one cloak per year, and hardly any food. If they couldn’t hack it and fend for themselves, then too bad, they must not have been cut out to be invincible, resourceful warriors.
Part of the reason this strikes Americans as being so strange is that American parents are possibly the most overprotective ones in the world (and this is a comparatively recent thing, not something that’s been true for the past century or whatever):
Xenophon and Plutarch wrote about Spartan training, which was pretty rough.
But, heck, even before they got to that point Spartan babies obviously had to learn to avoid that Great Big Round Pit in the ground with no guardrails into with they kicked Persian ambassadors.
Europeans seem a lot more free-range than Americans. Aren’t their Icelanders who leave their babies in strollers outside a restaurant in the winter while the parents eat indoors?
Wow, that’s fascinating! I’d never heard of that opera, much less that version of the story. The article says Humperdink got the lyrics from his sister (I think).
That said, it takes out much of what I like about the story. It’s so powerful to me because it shows the children living in a world of hostile adults, and they have to rely on their mutual love, courage, and wits to survive. Early in the story, Hansel saves Gretel from death; later, Gretel saves Hansel from death. The theme of starvation that runs through the story ties everything together. The opera sounds like it makes the parents a lot less sinister, and it makes starvation much less of an issue, and the children sound much less responsible and clever and loving.
Still, thanks for the info–it’s cool to learn about it!
That’s what I was going to say… dropping kids in the “woods” in the Netherlands is a wholly different animal than dropping your kids in the woods in much of the US, as the woods there are smaller and more bounded by civilized areas than in some parts of the US.
Plus, it doesn’t really describe how old the “children” are. I’m guessing probably 10-14, and that’s not really too much different than some of the things they let US kids do at the same ages. I’d be pretty amazed if they’re dropping 5 and 6 year olds off in the woods like that.
I don’t know where I read this, but if I understand correctly, the original “fairy tales” were not just for children – for one thing, stories were told when everyone was gathered around the hearth at night. A lot of the stories, like Hansel and Gretel, were about the dangers of the forest, and the desperation of peasants who in times of famine might have to abandon or sell their children.
Droppings are a staple of holiday camps, scouts do it, and students. I’ve only done it once myself when I was like 18 or so. Plus, as already noted, we don’t have real forests, we have parks containing trees with hiking routes marked by colored stakes. The first time I saw a real forest was in Scandinavia and that was a lot more intimidating.
I did see an adder once, in the boglands in Drenthe. But they’re rare. The wildest thing to encounter in a Dutch forest is a fox or a wild boar. Or fellow humans, usually a lot of them.
In my experience of the Netherlands - where are those forests? They certainly are not large, NL has probably the lowest proportion of forest in all of Europe.
When driving from NL back to Germany, when I lived there; I knew at once when we were over the border:
Daytime temperatures this winter in Stockholm have regularly dropped to -5C (23F) but it’s still common to see children left outside by their parents for a sleep in the pram.
Wander through the snowy city and you’ll see buggies lined up outside coffee shops while parents sip on lattes inside.