A point that must be made, and I haven’t waded through the entire thread yet so apologies if reiterating things expressed earlier…
There are different reasons for people becoming soldiers.
I’m a Brit, our experiences are different.
People are drafted, people enlist because they can’t get a job, people enlist because its expected of them.
In the U.K. there was until recently a three year waiting list, if you were LUCKY, to join a unit that would be front line fighting in Iraq or Afghan.
With defence cuts thats no doubt longer.
Reservists are, to put it mildly, very enthusiastic to volunteer for active service.
Its a cultural thing over here, if joining up and being part of a garrison in Germany against the day the Big Bear comes over the Hill is it, then recruiting dies the death.
But the chance to do the other stuff is very,very attractive to the average young Brit male.
Or the not so young, or female Brit.
So the posters up thread who categorise soldiers as somehow being a different section of society from everyone else are not correct in their belief.
And in the U.K. we have conscientious objectors as the same as every other country, we don’t slag them off and we don’t punish them.