Astroboy, buddy, I’m trying to help you out.
Well, Astroboy, you know what they say…the most important sex organ is the brain. What’s going on between her ears is more important that what’s going on between her legs. If she’s been taught that sex is gross & she shouldn’t like it, she’s going to need a little more patience & her response may not ever be of snot-out-the-nose intensity. FWIW, though, I don’t think it’s something you can get with your tongue. You’ll probably get it if you do her doggy-style, or you can have her lie on her back, deploy your hand such that your palm is facing the ceiling, & stroke the bump/rough spot you’ll find on the front wall.
Mine’s only rough when I’m pretty well aroused.
Astro, perhaps you could (delicately) encourage some, uh, self-exploration on Astrogirl’s part…she may be more able to find out what she likes when she’s on her own and a little less self-conscious.
And I know you’re probably exaggerating for effect, but I don’t think I’d like an orgasm that actually made me scream. Maybe I’m just a quiet person, but I used to wonder why I never seemed to have these really loud, life-changing experiences, when everyone seemed to talk about them all the time (or demonstrate them in the apartment next door). Then one day, I realized that it didn’t matter, 'cause I was having a pretty darn good time as it was, and some people are just more vocal about everything where I’m usually more restrained generally anyway. So if Astrogirl tells you she’s seen stars, but hasn’t screamed or passed out, believe her, and feel good about your participation.
Good luck, and happy hunting!
I know that the G spot is not a myth. I have had 2 girlfriends who I could give G spot orgasms to. One girlfriend would’nt let me have sex with her unless I gave her 2-3 orgasms with my fingers first. After getting to know where her hot spot was, It became easy. Theres an area along the inner front of the vagina thats pretty sensitive in some women. It’s easily reached by a couple fingers. JUst put two fingers all the way in, after she’s been warmed up off course, and massage the front of her vagina. Her moans will tell you when you hit the right spot.
Ultra Fantastic Orgasm!
I had my G spot ‘pointed’ out to me, after much patient searching and communication, by my former SO.
A gift that keeps on giving!