Really – try, just try, to comprehend that some people honestly don’t like dancing, despite the fact that you do. It’s not a matter of letting go, nor is it a matter of being in the moment. For some people, it’s simply a matter of not enjoying dancing.
It’s an example of the cliche: different strokes for different folks. It’s difficult for me to grasp why some people are so stubbornly dense about it…but then, given the different strokes idea, I suppose it’s inevitable. Frustrating, but inevitable.
Perciful, this is unfortunately getting obnoxious.
Let me be very clear: When I “let go” and let myself be “in the moment,” what happens is, I am completely still. I do not move. That, for me, is letting go and being in the moment. Moving around would ruin it.
As I said, this is getting obnoxious. This kind of comment has been addressed already. You’re implying that people who don’t like to dance are like that because they are worried about what others will think. This is not true. We just don’t like to dance.
Are you getting this yet?
We enjoy ourselves by means other than dancing.
Does that make sense to you?
I was joking before when I said your idea that wallflowers are afraid of what others will think is just as bad as if I were to assume dancers are too eager to make other people think about them.
And I don’t assume that.
But as much as you apparently like to go on and on about how much you lurrrrve to dance, I start to wonder if it is some kind of exhibitionism that motivates you after all.
