I wonder sometimes whether a small child— having watched a pumpkin sliced open, disemboweled, fitted with a burning candle, and left to rot on the doorstep— might not consider “daddy’s little pumpkin” somewhat menacing as a nickname.
I thought I made that very clear. I never said the name itself was a racist slur.
I said that continuing to use the name ‘Pumpkin’ a week after knowing her real name may be.
I thought that ‘Pumpkin Patch’ was a well-known brand of children’s clothes everywhere. Turns out I was wrong about that.
The Age newspaper had 5 stories about her and the Father yesterday. The word ‘pumpkin’ was not used once. The Herald Sun still calls her ‘Pumpkin’.
It isn’t. And your continued insistence that “it may be” belies your disclaimer. Get over it. Enough cases of real racism abound; don’t dilute them by making silly claims.
One of the morning news shows in Australia said that the police had requested Qian continued to be called Pumpkin by the media - apparently, she reacted excitedly when she saw a picture of her mother on a news broadcast, maybe they didn’t want to traumatise her any further by continually hearing her name mentioned as well?
except that’s different. “cherrypop” is offensive and crass all by itself. If they were calling her Sweetpea or Bumblebee or Little Sprout or Kitten, I don’t see there being an issue.
Quite a moving open letter from Qian Xun Xue’s grandmother (the two were reuinited today - ending nine days of the little girl being with strangers), lifted from the New Zealand Herald, and reproduced here in its entirety as it is public domain:
Thank you SOOOOO much Scissorjack for the update. As per usual, I’ve come home from work early on Friday afternoon, and turn to the SDMB for all the ‘world news’ before bothering to check the telly/radio or news websites. It never fails!
Last I heard of the fucker, he was spotted a couple of weeks ago in Mississippi (or so the reports stated) but they must have had some decent leads it seems.
Way to kick off my weekend to a friggin fabulous start!!