I’m not married to her, but I am connected to her on FB and LinkedIn.
Living in Wyoming. We are still friends and I still consider him someone I can talk to about anything. He was widowed far too young, a couple of years ago. I road-tripped to Wyoming for his wedding and considered his wife a friend, too. Lung cancer is a bitch.
He is a good person, and I could have done far worse than end up with him, but I still don’t understand how I managed to be in a serious relationship with (at the time) a two-pack-a-day smoker. I hadn’t been diagnosed with asthma yet, but I have hated cigarettes since I was a little kid. I am glad he finally managed to quit and make it stick, but wish it hadn’t taken losing both his mom and his wife to inoperable lung cancer to make him do it.
I know, I’m like yup…biggest whore on the planet now…that’s me.
He is happily married (as am I) and lives not very far away. I’m glad life worked out well for him and we are Facebook friends but I don’t think either of us cares to be any closer than that.
We are FB friends, she lives like 5 miles away. I have not seen her in person for probably 10 years. She has been married to current hubby for like 10 years (#3 i believe. I was between #1 and #2). Interestingly enough I ended up have significant contact with husband #1 because of work circles (he was fire, I was ambulance).
Last I knew she was still near the college town where it happened and on her second marriage.
Side note, I like the OP phrasing of lost it with versus the more common lost it to.
Ditto.
Though I suspect a bit of a selection bias going on - who’s more likely to answer a question like this? ‘We lost touch,’ or ‘we’ve been married for years’?
About 35 miles from here, caretaking his 2nd wife, who is very ill. He is also in poor shape, with COPD. We have both been married to second spouses for 3 decades; we do have 2 kids in common, and 2 grandchildren, great little cuties. So, the virginity loss yielded some positive results, even if the marriage did not endure
Last I heard, she was in the Greater Toronto Area. Married, with two kids.
I ran into mine a few years back, in the waiting room at the chiropractor – and I didn’t recognize her!
My family and I had just moved to the area a few weeks earlier, so when a woman about my age came up and said, “Hi, Akaj!” I thought she was one of our new neighbors and was wracking my brain trying to remember her name. When she saw I was drawing a blank, she held up her ID badge from work to show me her still-unchanged name. I’m sure my jaw hit my chest.
She looked exactly the same, just 20 years older. Had never married or had kids. Seemed happy enough. Never saw or spoke to her again.
I have no idea where the psychotic bitch is, nor do I care. However, about 15 years ago I suddenly got an email from her (she had managed to find it on the intertoobs) wishing me happy birthday (we had the same one) and “just wanting to know that I did okay after her betrayal”. Really? After 40 years you ask this? I didn’t answer it, and immediately scrubbed any social website of my personal information. Haven’t had another attempt since then.
In his office. I’m about to ask if he wants to go out for lunch. Like VOW, I have a warm one, but he tends to twitch and thrash in his sleep these days (nights?), so I mostly rely on an electric blanket. 
I have no idea. I couldn’t have told you where she was the day after it happened. I certainly don’t know 30 years later.
I have absolutely no fucking idea who she was or where she may be now. It was during a thunderstorm, that’s all.
Hopefully they are incarcerated somewhere. No it was not consensual and no I do not want elaborate further.
At the other end of the sofa. Going on 30 years together.
I just assumed the OP meant “consensually” and answered accordingly.
To those of you whose first experience wasn’t consensual, I’m sorry, and I hope you’ve found healing.
My first is living in Texas, married, though he’s hinted not happily, with a whole bunch of animals. Last I heard they were trying for a kid. I decided against sharing my opinion on that with him.
No idea. We dated for two weeks 23 years ago, had a good time, broke up and dropped out of each others’ lives forever. She has a very common first name and I don’t remember her last name, so I doubt I could track her down on my own; that said, she dated two of my friends before we became an item, and one of them I still see regularly (we have a D&D campaign going), so maybe he knows what’s up with her. Not that I’d ask - it’s still a touchy subject.
She took my virginity in 1963, and kept it for the next 56 years! That’s OK, as I still have hers.
She was my first, and has been my only full on sexual experience.
It does get better with practice!
I made a pancake breakfast today, and we took a relaxing drive to see some local seasonal sights, followed by Chinese lunch. Tonight we just had some Poblano chilis stuffed with chicken that I made, tamales from a friend, and a salad that she made.
Off to a movie tomorrow. You can see that we get along.
Now if I can just pull her away from the TV…