My husband and I will tell our toddler that he’s being a pill when he’s being a PITA. Or one of us will tell the other, upon the other arriving home, that the child is being a pill. Sometimes we’ll say “he’s being especially 2,” but pill is easier.
My mom and grandmother both used the phrase; I’m not sure about my husband’s family.
I refer to my daughter as a pill when what I want to say is that she’s being a bitchy little pain in the ass, but I don’t want to use any of those words to refer to my daughter.
I use it for the same reasons ENugent does. If my son’s being a little shit and someone at work or someone I don’t know well asks me about him, saying he’s a pill is much more acceptable than saying he’s a little shit.
Yeah, that’s pretty much how my wife and I use it since the Firebug came into our lives. I was familiar with the expression before that, but almost never used it back then.
True, but there’s definitely something to the phrase “he’s being especially 2.” Now that you’ve introduced me to the phrase, I think the wife and I are going to be giving it quite a workout between now and the Firebug’s third birthday.
My favorite use of this phrase I heard once from a bitchy relative, “They are a perfect couple…She’s a pill and he’s a headache. I hope they make each other miserable.”
I love using words like this, for exactly this reason. I use “card” all the time. “Cut-up” is another good one. I’ve used “pill” once or twice, but I plan to use it more now. I usually say “treat” (sarcastically), as in, “Well, you’re just a treat, aren’t you?” or “He sounds like a real treat.”
I have no idea why using antiquated terms entertains me so, but it does, by crackey!
My mom used to call my brother that all the time, and make up songs. It helps that my brother’s name rhymes with ‘pill’. So he was ‘[Brother’s name] the Pill’ for years.
I use it all the time. I’ve been calling the baby a pill today because she was weirdly cranky, whiny, and clingy. It’s kind of part of my kid code - it’s unacceptable to say to a 2yo, “Why are you being such a pain in the ass?” but “pill” is OK. Kind of like we use “goofball” to stand in when sometimes we really want to say “idiot.”
(N.B., I love my kids, don’t regularly put them down, and actually consider them to be better behaved than most of their peers. But everybody’s a pain in the ass or an idiot some of the time!)
Wow, haven’t heard that in a long time! My mom used it while we were growing up <‘We’ are 43-32 now> and used it to mean ‘pain in the ass’. She was raised in Maine, if that helps.