WARNING: post cobbled together from random ideas over the past couple of days - please ask for clarification over the parts where I become nonsensical!
Sorry, Hypnagogic Jerk, but I’m not sure what you’re hoping I can explain. I don’t feel the same way you do - I don’t feel that Prince Edward Island, or BC, or Yellowknife are “foreign” to me…the things I don’t know about them are things that I don’t know about my country, and I embrace that opportunity to learn a little more when I come across references, stories, traditions and expressions that I don’t understand. I am not conflicted about my identity as a Canadian and as a Quebecker.
I think you choose to feel different when it comes to the ROC. You choose to reject that Canadian identity, whatever it may be, as your own, rather than embrace it, and you choose to not recognize that you are, in fact, both francophone and anglophone (if your writing is this good, I strongly suspect your spoken English is very strong as well). You have learned to speak English for a reason, because it is of value to you, and I think it’s unfair to then turn around and say that English is “foreign” to you and you don’t identify with the culture that gave it to you when you use it every day. You choose to only love the French part of you and your environment, but you are missing out on so much more.
You said that Albertans and Nova Scotians live in the same “information bath”, and they speak the same language, and therefore have more in common with one another than with Quebeckers. Can I ask you this, then: do you feel a common identity with someone from Lennoxville or Westmount? Those anglophones in Québec who watch American TV, read the Gazette, who listen to English-language music, who recognize and respect the anglophone historical figures who have formed this country, who are federalist, but who also eat poutine and maple syrup, grew up watching Passe-Partout, singing songs to Carmen Campagne, learned to speak (some level of) French since Grade One, and who choose to live and love in this province? They talk about the same politics, the same infrastructure issues, the same health care dilemmas, the same social and cultural events as you do. They are Québecois too, in the same “information bath” as you. Are they like you? Are they a part of you? Or does the fact that they identify primarily as English make them foreign to you?
Because if you say no to that, then I stand by my initial statement - you have chosen what you want to identify with, and reject so much else that also actually makes you who you are, and that, to me, is a very sad thing.
I agree that trying to come up with a single national identity in Canada is doomed to failure, because this country is so big, with such differing regional experiences, that it’s hard to lump everyone together and say “this is what it is to be Canadian”. This would be true even if Québec wasn’t right there in the middle of it all! Adding Québec in just adds a layer of complexity to an already complex issue. But I don’t think it’s as ridiculous as it seems to be able to point to some things that Canadians identify with, and say that that’s a part of what it is to be Canadian. Clichés like Maple leaves, maple syrup, hockey, Tim Hortons and Ben Mulroney (love him or hate him!) are “Canadian”. More serious things like our parliamentary system, our laws, our positions/views on healthcare and education are also largely the same from province to province, and unite us even when we are divided on the details. Sure, many of these things are also found in the States, or even worldwide, but all these, and more, make up the Canadian identity. This is our country, and how we choose to run it makes us us. We are Canadian because we make Canada what it is.
The thing is, there’s nothing there that says that people must reject the additional identities that other “nations” have. Someone can be a proud member of the First Nations, speak their native tongue and be well versed in the entire history and traditions of his people, but still cheer for [insert hockey team of choice], and enjoy sugar on snow while watching This Hour has 22 Minutes and changing the channel whenever eTalk comes on TV. A proud Québecois can still take part in the national (federal) debates about healthcare, about proportional representation, about national defense or whatever, and still speak French, read Michel Tremblay, and watch Loft Story.
I don’t think Canadians reject the idea of recognizing several nations within their boarders. I think most Canadians are fully aware that this country is made up of several groups, but I think the problem becomes “where does it stop” when it comes to political action and school curricula? Recognizing French-Canadians is one thing…but that includes Franco-Albertans, Franco-Ontarians, Quebeckers, Franco-New-Brunswickers, and all the other little pockets of francophone-ness in the country. Are they all different? Are they all distinct? Don’t they all have their own histories and traditions and stories? Do they all need to be told they are different and distinct by the government, and what does that even mean? Reminded daily? Weekly? Yearly? What will this even change for these people; how will it change their lives, change their financial situation, change their health? Quebec demands recognition for what, exactly? We shouldn’t be insisting that we are different…we should just be different, and let that speak for itself.
I think Québec is doing a disfavour to francophones outside Québec by not “caring” about them, by not trying to form a broader, more national identity with them. I think it is a terrible idea to define cultures by territorial lines, because someone always ends up on the other side of that line when maybe they don’t really need to be (As an aside: if that line gets officially drawn and Québec separates, can you tell me where I should go? Where do I belong? If I am both Canadian and Québecoise now, what will I be then? I don’t want to choose a side of the line to stand on.)
There are so many other tangents and issues I could write rambling paragraphs about, but I think I’ll leave it at that and see where this goes. I think this thread will end up being several conversations at once. My apologies if I’m not very clear or if I’m too vague…writing is not my strong suit!