I have four kids. My first did exactly what you did, starting first grade worried that all his friends were reading and he couldn’t. Then it was like an Amish house raising … there must have been structures there that just needed to all come together, because suddenly he was reading anything. Really literally overnight. The next was more linear in his progress, the third very precocious, reading well and before 4, and the last a bit slower to master reading and at 10 still not loving it although she can read well enough. More anecdotes as to why sorting too early, or using a static achievement measurement at any one point in time is to be avoided.
First off, it sounds like your school was particularly egregious in using so-called gifted ed as a means to keep advantaged students from bolting. Using you as resource to service that population, rather than giving you opportunity to further expand your artistry for its own sake, strikes me as very very wrong at a nauseating level.
Second of all - I knew we could!
Realize that the number of comments that said it was equalled one, someone who apparently accurately described himself as having a problem with focus and attention.
My experience is that all IQ levels and ability levels have an equal potential to benefit from cultural programming even if they get different things out of it. I don’t get music theory at all,was kicked out of elementary school band because I was that bad, and would not enjoy a concert at any intellectual level, but can enjoy the music anyway, for example. Everyone should have the chance to be exposed to it.
Well this will be a digression perhaps but I have parented a long time. My oldest is 25 and youngest is turning 10. I also am in pediatrics so hear about the classrooms on an ongoing basis. And the ideal as taught in teaching colleges is farther and farther from reality in most schools. Schools are increasingly concerned on how they are graded, and they are graded based on how their kids test. From Kindergarten on preparing for the test, and only teaching it if it will be on the test, has become the focus. A few years back my eldest had no pressure for not reading by the start of first grade. For my youngest there was an expectation that she should be reading before getting into Kindergarten so they can start right off getting the kids to work. And now Kindergartens are full of worksheets and fewer manipulatives. Holding kids back a year was discouraged in the past, now it is subtly encouraged. And better a faux gifted program than having your brighter (read better on the test scores) third move into a private school or even out of district (which parents with resources will do if they think a better education for their kid is to be had a few miles away).