I disagree.
It’s “open ended”, sure, but, hey, life is like that.
I enjoy pursuing various careers and putting bizarre objects in the front yard.
My wife enjoys activating the money cheat and giving herself a million bucks to build mansions with.
Buckleberry: I dunno if Gamespot still has a Sims demo available, but they used to. Try before you buy, if you can. If you’re really that interested, The Sims Deluxe would be well worth it – as previously mentioned, it contains the basic game, plus the first expansion set, which really improves the game (Sims can’t have sex without the first expansion set, Livin’ Large).
The Sims’ autonomy can be set on a scale of 1 to 100 – at one end, you can’t control them at all, on the other end, they will stand there and literally starve to death unless you tell them what to do. You can set it anywhere in between.
I installed the Sims originally on my Windows 98 machine, and it runs just fine. The only OS I’ve heard that it conflicts with is Windows XP, and not always even that. You do need at LEAST 30 megs of RAM, though, and more like 128 or more megs if you intend to go crazy with the expansion sets… but, hell, who DOESN’T have at least 30 megs of RAM these days? If you’re on the internet, and you can run Windows 98, you have what it takes, likely enough. The game wasn’t designed for high-end machines.
MESHES: the three-dimensional “skeletons” of Sims. Female meshes have breasts, for example. Male meshes are slightly taller and don’t. “Skins” wrap around these meshes, and give them color and texture. You don’t have to even know this, really – the game takes care of it for you. All you have to do is choose your sims’ bodies, and then choose heads to match. Your choices are:
Male or Female
Adult or Child
White, Brown, or Black
…and a great many clothing/hairstyle/appearance options.
Oh, and the tutorial in the basic game literally walks you through your first game! Just click on the Newbies’ house in the middle of the first neighborhood, the one with the giant fraggin’ arrow in the sky, pointing at it. It will walk and talk you through it!