There is an aphorism that people are motivated far more by fear of loss, than desire for gain. So I wanted to ask what each side fears losing (whether the fear is rational or not is irrelevant; just wanted to ask what each side feels they stand to lose.)
IMHO, a lot of what is at stake for conservatives falls under the category of “peace of mind.” On the abortion issue, for instance, pro-lifers technically aren’t directly affected by any abortion laws - no U.S. government (at least, for now) is going to impose forced abortions on anyone, unlike China. What is at stake for pro-lifers is “peace of mind” - if one considers abortion to be murder, then it would be a cause of considerable distress to know that a million abortions are happening every year in America. Whereas pro-choicers could actually be ***tangibly ***affected, in the sense that a woman who is pregnant and wants an abortion might be unable to get one due to abortion laws.
The same also applies for same-sex marriage: Nobody is going to force heterosexuals to marry someone of the same gender, but homosexuals could be prevented, by anti-SSM laws, from marrying someone of the same gender.
(“Peace of mind” isn’t trivial, though. If one knows that there is genocide going on in Africa, that technically doesn’t affect anyone in America tangibly, yet the mental distress caused by that fact ought to carry considerable weight.)
On some other issues, though, conservatives also stand to lose something tangible. On the issue of guns, conservatives are somewhat likelier to own guns than liberals, so anti-gun legislation could tangibly affect conservatives more than liberals.
On affirmative action, it is a zero-sum situation to some extent: Both sides are trying to get “more of my kind” into the Ivy Leagues, at the expense of “the other side’s kind.”
On climate change, both sides stand to lose, since climate change affects the whole planet.
On taxes, there’s not much difference - there are plenty of rich and poor liberals and conservatives alike, and the overlap is extreme. It is difficult to write up a federal tax law in such a way that it exclusively harms only conservatives or liberals.
On voter ID, some people without ID could be prevented from voting, so they fear losing voting rights. As for those who support voter ID, they would fear cheating shenanigans that would corrupt the election - so what they fear is losing electoral power at the ballot box. (Or someone could claim they fear minorities voting, but that is also the same fear - a loss of electoral power at the ballot box.)
On speech, one side fears that hate speech could be allowed to spread and poison people’s minds, the other side fears that free speech will be taken away, or that it will be unfairly permitted for one side and not another.