Well, if someone is going to use a very different meaning for a common word, they should take the trouble to define their special definition. You can’t have a productive discussion when people start coming up with weird private definitions of words and don’t even say so.
I mean, if I say “Guinastasia is a cannibal”, I’d better explain right away that “Oh, by that I mean that since she eats organic matter, and we are all organic matter, she’s a cannibal like all the rest of us.” It would still be silly, but at least comprehensible. As opposed to using a private definition of cannibal, and not explaining myself for pages and pages; which is the equivalent of what lekatt is doing if he’s using a private definition of love.