Sounds odd, but yeah. During that couple of weeks, we’d get together for dinner/drinks/conversation. Life at home is different than life on a cruise. They are cool people, trying as hard as they can to spend their life’s savings before they die.
Maybe. For the last few years I’ve been going to various college job fairs looking for interns and I shake plenty of hands those days. Back in February/March of this year, before such events were cancelled, job fairs instituted no hand shaking policies. But many times either I or the student would reflexively reach out to shake the other’s hand only to awkwardly withdraw when we remembered that was against the rules. A few times we ended up shaking hands despite our best efforts to follow the rules. In some environments, handshaking is still the norm.
I’m at work. Just 15 minutes ago someone stuck out their hand. We are both masked, and his out-thrust hand kinda freaked me out. I stared at his hand, making no move whatsoever to shake. He finally chuckled and took a step back.
We currently have about 90% of our employees working from home. In the short term, it’s been good for us because we’ve been able to mitigate the risks of our workforce becoming incapacitated due to illness and it’s a good indication of the company’s commitment to keeping their employees safe which is good for engagement. Since working from home, we’ve had problems with managers who are uncertain how they should communicate with their employees now that nobody’s in the office. (These are managers who didn’t have a problem with communication in the Before Times.) And I don’t think our new hires have had the best onboarding experience since we started all working from home.
I don’t expect that we’ll all work from home 100% of the time once Covid is no longer a serious threat. But I wouldn’t be surprised if more than 1/2 our staff is working from home either full or part time after things get back to normal.
With modern dyes and detergents, most people that I know do all of their laundry unsorted and don’t have any problem with it. I do it myself and don’t have any problem. Also, I know a lot of people who have very few actual ‘whites’ in their regular clothing rotation - maybe a shirt or two and some athletic socks, but most or all of their underwear will be black or colored rather than old-school white.
Several hundred? That’s practically a canoe. The new 6,000+ passenger ships give me the creeps. Add another 2,000+ crew and that’s just too much norovirus for my taste.
I don’t know the pricing in your area, but here, $35 is suspiciously cheap. My partner gets $50 for a quick clipper cut. Barber cuts and styling are more. That said, an unfortunately large percentage of his clientele is apparently OK with pandemic hair, or they found a home haircutting kit. Don’t really know the answer there.
Same at my Costco. Gotta ask for them - no more open trays, so no more dirty fingers grubbing around to find the perfect sample.
Totally disagree! A barber does a better job than I ever could on my own hair. At the shop I used to go to in L.A. they used to shave the back of my neck with a straight razor as a final touch. For a modest additional amount of money, they would shave my the sides of my face (I wore a goatee and mustache at the time), again all with the straight razor, lather, hot towels, etc.
All men owe it to themselves to experience a barber shave.
When I had my hair shorter, the woman who cut my hair did this. Now my hair is longer, so I don’t get this any more. I miss it.
FWIW, I’m a woman, so I don’t normally have a straight razor anywhere near my head.
I have Spanish and French coworkers, who normally great each other with a kiss on each cheek. In Switzerland it is three kisses. So if there’s a mix, there’s always the question “2 or 3?”. That’s ended. A) no one is traveling and B) probably going to be a long time before there’s any kiss greetings among coworkers.
Replying to AskNott, a work colleague a few years ago took his post-transplant wife (kidney, in her late 60s) on a South Pacific cruise. She was only 8 months post-op.
The inevitable happened, she got some vague virus onboard, had to be airlifted back to Aus and then she passed away.
(Yes, I have many questions re insurance, how her renal specialist gave her clearance yada yada) but I would never go on a cruise even if in the best of health…being immunocompromised? Fuck no!
I went golfing the other day and played with a couple of guys I’d never met before. We all just raised our right hands in a “hello” wave gesture. Considering that this is rural Oklahoma, I saw it as a huge step towards the extinction of the handshake.
Damn. I get mine done at the base barber shop – don’t remember for certain, but I think the last time I went (not quite a year ago) it was $16-18 for haircut + beard and moustache trim, and to me that’s expensive.
I think one thing that hopefully will be gained is a more knowledgeable understanding of the ways in which diseases are transmitted. Maybe once and for all, we can all agree that the common cold, the flu, and all the other infections in the upper respiratory tract, all depend on viruses and bacterias… And that you can’t catch a cold from being cold.
Let’s open those windows and let the fresh winter-breeze in.
The traditional handshake might not come back as it exactly was, but something involving physical contact will replace it. The fist-bump might become more stylized, so there is a less juvenile version that happens between adults.
I know lately when I meet someone for the first time, or come to an agreement with someone on something, the urge to shake hands is REALLY strong, and it feels very much like something is missing. The feeling lingers.
I realize I’m 53, and on the downside of middle age, so there are lots of people who are adults, but significantly younger than me; their preferences are going to set the new rules, and they may not have the “itch” to shake hands that I do, not being as acculturated to it as I am, but every culture does something upon greeting or agreeing. Yes, I know there are cultures that have bowing, or something not involving physical contact, but I still think that “people like touching each other” is going to influence what eventually emerges.