Maybe GD, I dunno. I mainly want opinions, so…
I had a Facebook conversation with an ex-friend, who I have completely disconnected from because of their hyper-liberal attitude on this subject. The topic was that Gillian Anderson was initially offered less money than David Duchovny for the new X-Files series. I said I agreed with that offering because I felt Anderson didn’t look like Scully any more, but David looked like Mulder still. For this daring opinion of the specific appearance of two actors, I get shouted down as being sexist. No matter how many times I say that it’s specifically about those two actors and not about people in general, they just come back and say that I’m being subconsciously influenced by the pervasive nature of sexism. I tell them it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with those specific actors, and am told things like:
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It’s prima facie sexism, dude. Insisting that it’s your opinion doesn’t magically make it less sexist. “I think that woman doesn’t look how I want her to look so she deserves less for doing the same job as a man.” Dress that turd however you like, but it still stinks.
You are using a specious, ridiculous argument to back up a horrifically sexist decision that other people made. In so doing, you are helping to prop up sexism.
In arguing that she deserves less money than he does because of how she looks, you’re backing up Hollywood’s sexism. And a lot of other sexism, for that matter. You are choosing to be part of the problem.
Your opinion on what Gillian Anderson should look like is offensive on a base level because you are telling a woman what she should look like to please your sensibilities. You don’t see any problem with this at all?
Except that gender isn’t separable from all of this. We are far less likely to be as forgiving to a woman for her looks as she ages than we are to be forgiving to a man–that’s the society we live in. And, anyway, saying ANYTHING to support the travesty of underpaying a female actor compared to her male costar is inherently sexist.
[Y]our opinion is the dumbest thing I’ve encountered on the internet. Sexist, superficial, and not following any logical path as far as I can determine.
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Does anyone else agree that my specific feeling that Gillian Anderson deserved less money for the precise reason that she looked less like Scully than David Duchovny does Mulder is sexist? I don’t see anything sexist about it at all. I’m stating one particular opinion about two specific actors, and if their sexes were reversed I’d say the reverse. I don’t get where these people are coming from. From my perspective, these people look to be the kind of people that conservatives use in their straw man arguments as what those stupid liberals think. They don’t have an open mind at all, and are absolutely convinced that anything that disparages one particular woman over a man must absolutely be sexist when that was absolutely the most furthest thing from my mind!