Thoughts and Masturbation

[DianaG]

I’m not at all sure that it is. I’m a woman, and I really can’t imagine why I’d be fantasizing about hot sweaty things being done to someone else, unless it’s me doing them.

[BigBertha]

1. nothing
2. current flame
3. Opal!

[elfkin477]

@MichaelEmouse

@elfkin477

PPR, you’re a guy, right? I bet that’s why there’s no option for “I’m not an actor in my fantasties, but a viewer” which is an extremely common theme for women’s fantasies. You know, like how many women enjoy romance novels? It works the same way when you make the story up in your head too.

Elfkin,

Why is being a viewer more common than an actor in women’s fantasies?

I don’t know that it’s more common, but probably about as common. My guess is that you don’t have to feel guilt about anything outrageous that you can think up because you’re not thinking about doing those things yourself/to anyone. If you’re not doing [insert something risque or taboo] in the fantasy you don’t need to worry about wondering if *you’re *the type of person who’d do that.

[tr0psn4j]

@BigBertha

1. nothing
2. current flame
3. Opal!

:o

[Serenata67]

@AClockworkMelon

@Serenata67

I’m fantasizing about being gang banged.

You come here often?

I do…

…but since I love my husband, that’s gone back to being just a fantasy…

[tdn]

@elfkin477

I don’t know that it’s more common, but probably about as common. My guess is that you don’t have to feel guilt about anything outrageous that you can think up because you’re not thinking about doing those things yourself/to anyone. If you’re not doing [insert something risque or taboo] in the fantasy you don’t need to worry about wondering if *you’re *the type of person who’d do that.

Sounds like another poll is imminent.

[AClockworkMelon]

@Hello_Again

@AClockworkMelon

What’s your gender?

female

I thought so. This is a WAG but I think women might enjoy masturbating more than men do.

Maybe I’m the strange one but masturbating doesn’t really feel good to me. I’m just driven to do it. Or something.

[GrandWino]

There’s no way I can choose only one option. Depends on my mood, and the circumstances (am I in front of a computer, in a bathroom, on a bus, etc…).

[tdn]

@Bob Ducca

There’s no way I can choose only one option. Depends on my mood, and the circumstances (am I in front of a computer, in a bathroom, on a bus, etc…).

On a bus? Are you kidding?

That’s what laptops were invented for.

[Antinor01]

All of the above. Sometimes several of them in one session. Or one of them the first time and another the second/third etc.

[purplehorseshoe]

@Sateryn76

I chose “other” because I don’t often put faces on my “sex partners” while I’m masturbating.

My fantasies are almost wholly based on situations - like a gang-bang or a boss/secretary scene or something like that. Basically, it doesn’t matter who’s calling me a dirty whore

Female

I apparently let **Sateryn **post for me. There really aren’t faces in my fantasies, either - just situations. (Me = F, too.)

[gallows_fodder]

@elfkin477

PPR, you’re a guy, right? I bet that’s why there’s no option for “I’m not an actor in my fantasties, but a viewer” which is an extremely common theme for women’s fantasies. You know, like how many women enjoy romance novels? It works the same way when you make the story up in your head too.

I thought the same thing. My fantasies are stories/situations – they’re not about me. I might identify with one of the characters, but that character is not me, as I am in real life. In fact, nobody in the fantasy is an actual real-life person, whether someone I know personally or a celebrity. They might be based on a real-life person (never someone I know, though – I’m not comfortable with that) or be the same “type,” but they’re still imaginary characters.

[Thudlow_Boink]

@pseudotriton_ruber_ruber

• “Allow multiple choice” presents viewers with checkboxes instead of radio buttons, so they can choose more than one option. This is for the “check all that apply” polls, as opposed to the “pick the one best answer” polls.

Shouldn’t you have made it this kind of a poll?

[GrandWino]

@tdn

@Bob Ducca

There’s no way I can choose only one option. Depends on my mood, and the circumstances (am I in front of a computer, in a bathroom, on a bus, etc…).

On a bus? Are you kidding?

That’s what laptops were invented for.

But they’re so hard to balance on your knees on a bumpy ride.

And yes, of course I’m kidding.

[AClockworkMelon]

@Bob Ducca

@tdn

On a bus? Are you kidding?

That’s what laptops were invented for.

But they’re so hard to balance on your knees on a bumpy ride.

That’s why you have the passenger next to you hold your laptop while you jerk off.

[gladtobeblazed]

Other: All of the above

[panache45]

I wanted to select everything, including “other.” Do you really think people fantasize about the same thing all the time?

[tr0psn4j]

@panache45

I wanted to select everything, including “other.” Do you really think people fantasize about the same thing all the time?

That’s the reason why I think fantasizing about your SO is a bit weird. Why fantasize about something you can get?

[pseudotriton_ruber_ruber]

@tr0psn4j

fantasizing about your SO is a bit weird.

I agree, but I included that because my GF said that she fantasized about me, and I thought, “But I’m right here. Why bother?” Maybe I should have run a pre-poll poll just to find out all the varieties of thoughts I couldn’t even conceive of.

[Rala]

@Hello_Again

I don’t think about anything other than the sensations I’m actually feeling. In other words, I don’t think a narrative of any type, I’m just focusing on physical sensations. A few people I’ve shared this with find this strange. shrug

This is usually the case for me. But if I do fantasise, it’s like gallows fodder said - it’s imaginary, with characters who aren’t me or anyone I know.